NCP wants the twins for a week

[xKellyx]

his wife must really think she has something then, stupid games are being played.

the car seat issue is definetly huge, and I would make sure they were in one before they ever leave your house or else I don't feel you have to let them go.

 

[CJane]

his wife must really think she has something then, stupid games are being played.

the car seat issue is definetly huge, and I would make sure they were in one before they ever leave your house or else I don't feel you have to let them go.

She's perfectly capable of providing carseats.

 

[bononos]

Now I'd have to be devious with this one.
Let's see. . . . . . . .
I'd scan and print 2 copies of the picture, cause you'll want to save the original just in case you end up in court.
Cut out his thingy-majig, and mail one to him and one to his GF.
Write notes in each.
Her note, something like:
Dear Chippy,
I obviously already had this and it wasn't worth keeping. I don't want it back.
Your stuck with it now. Good luck, you'll need it.

His note, something like:
Dear Dumb-Azz,
I'd appreciate you keep this to yourself. Should pictures such as these take place again, I will be forced to do to you the same as I have done to the picture.


Oh, I could have fun with this one...........................

 

[NotSoNew]

She's perfectly capable of providing carseats.

who is "she"

dad is perfectly capable of purchasing his own car seats.

 

[xKellyx]

She's perfectly capable of providing carseats.

i never said she wasn't, i just said to make sure they are in them before father leaves with the kids.....


ROFL@Bononos

 

[CJane]

who is "she"

dad is perfectly capable of purchasing his own car seats.

Agreed. However, if it came down to an agreed upon visit, and she refused to let the kids leave because dad didn't have carseats, she'd look pretty bad in court.

It's called co-parenting for a reason. And honestly, if dad only has the kids a coupld of times a year? Mom should offer to provide the car seats, coats, clothes, etc. He shouldn't have to run out and purchase all of those things for two growing boys that he sees so rarely.

 

[casa]

Now I'd have to be devious with this one.
Let's see. . . . . . . .
I'd scan and print 2 copies of the picture, cause you'll want to save the original just in case you end up in court.
Cut out his thingy-majig, and mail one to him and one to his GF.
Write notes in each.
Her note, something like:
Dear Chippy,
I obviously already had this and it wasn't worth keeping. I don't want it back.
Your stuck with it now. Good luck, you'll need it.

His note, something like:
Dear Dumb-Azz,
I'd appreciate you keep this to yourself. Should pictures such as these take place again, I will be forced to do to you the same as I have done to the picture.


Oh, I could have fun with this one...........................

ROFLMAO!

 

[Rushia]

Now I'd have to be devious with this one.
Let's see. . . . . . . .
I'd scan and print 2 copies of the picture, cause you'll want to save the original just in case you end up in court.
Cut out his thingy-majig, and mail one to him and one to his GF.
Write notes in each.
Her note, something like:
Dear Chippy,
I obviously already had this and it wasn't worth keeping. I don't want it back.
Your stuck with it now. Good luck, you'll need it.

His note, something like:
Dear Dumb-Azz,
I'd appreciate you keep this to yourself. Should pictures such as these take place again, I will be forced to do to you the same as I have done to the picture.


Oh, I could have fun with this one...........................

ROTFLMAO!!! I love it. Uck, I wouldn't want naked pictures of my ex either. Personally, I think that OP should ignore it as they are probably just trying to get under her skin.

 

[mytwinsandme]

Agreed. However, if it came down to an agreed upon visit, and she refused to let the kids leave because dad didn't have carseats, she'd look pretty bad in court.

It's called co-parenting for a reason. And honestly, if dad only has the kids a coupld of times a year? Mom should offer to provide the car seats, coats, clothes, etc. He shouldn't have to run out and purchase all of those things for two growing boys that he sees so rarely.

The fact is it isn't coparenting. It is me parenting. He is like the long lost uncle who drops in once in a while. I have been taking care of the twins by myself with out any help from him (this is the first year he has started paying child support even though he was suppose to when they were born and back support has just been increasing), the government, or his family. I do provide all necessities for my children when they visit him. I would never let them go without the proper items needed example clothes, diapers, stroller, shoes, medication etc. just to get back at him. He may use the children to play his games but I will not put my children through that. That is exactly what I feel like he is doing. Using the children to play games with me.

Also, he does have car seats. His mother purchased them for him. His mother always provides things for him and says he is providing them. In fact, she buys their birthday presents and signs the card with their dad and his wife's name and says he shipped it over for them. I think that is really the only reason he sees them. I think his mom pushes him but I have told her she is more than welcomed to see the children when he isn't here. She just needs to call. She doesn't have to see the children only when he comes. She only lives 2 miles from me.

As for the comment about cutting out the pictures. That is just too funny. I have been tempted on a numerous occasions to do exactly that. Here ya go. I don't want this anymore. or Enlarge it on the PC and say here is what I always wished you had when we were together not itsy bitsy and send a picture of little smokies. That would be stooping to their level though. Also, I don't have his address. He refuses to give me his address in Tx but yet he wants me to send the kids to him over there and wants me to pay for it after he moved out there by his choice when the kids were 6 months old. The only way I have to contact him by is his cell phone or email. His mom even says that she doesn't have his address.

 

[mytwinsandme]

his wife must really think she has something then, stupid games are being played.

the car seat issue is definetly huge, and I would make sure they were in one before they ever leave your house or else I don't feel you have to let them go.

Yeah she does think she has something. But then she is no Gem. If I looked like her I would think I had something too. I definitley know there is better than that out there.