Uh, yeah, Mark, what we said. The former clients who were all gung ho to "go to bat for you" have gotten cold feet because they still have to deal with the agency. But as we also pointed out to you, their refusal to give you statements, etc. is completely useless in the whole big picture, as they cannot do anything but give their opinions about it all, and as we continued to point out to you, it was NOT GOING TO BE IMPORTANT ANYHOW!!!!
You will not be "up on the stand" being grilled about anything. This is an agency hearing, okay? It is NOT a serious big old Law and Order trial situation. This hearing will be either in person or on the phone, in any case, this is what will happen. Both you and the employer or their representative (an attorney, big whoop, attorneys are not usually any more conversant with unemployment law than you are) will be sworn in, and the whole hearing will be recorded.
The appeals judge/referee/official of some type will explain the parameters, will start the process, and then probably you, since you are the one appealing the decision, will begin the proceding by telling the exact circumstances under which you were terminated, what you were TOLD on the day you were terminated was the reason you were terminated, why you do not feel this was a violation of confidentiality, honestly, re-read what you have been told on this forum!! And then the employer or their representative will get to do their time, speak their little piece without interruptions, trying to show that they had a valid misconduct work related reason to terminated you, that you had been told, warned, and given opportunity to change your behavior, and you chose not to, and violated somebody's confidentiality to the extent that they had a good and important and valid reason to fire you. If either of you runs on too long, or strays too far off the subject, you'll be stopped by the appeals hearing supervisor.
And then they'll give YOU the opportunity to ask the employer or their representative questions, they'll give them the opportunity to ask questions, and then the officer of the hearing will get to ask any questions they think may be relevant. Do not speak while another party is speaking. Listen carefully to the appeals referee and be very respectful and professional in your behavior there. This is what will count a lot in the whole gestalt of the hearing. Act profession, be brief, be businesslike. Dress nicely, if it is an inperson hearing, appear before time to start, have your ducks in a row. DO NOT go in with a statement to read off, though you can have cheat notes or talking points written on your hand or something. But be sure not to go in with any kind of written statement to deliver, as it is a hearing of your testimony, NOT a reading or a discussion.
The hearing officer, after the hearing, will go back and listen to the recording of the hearing, and make a decision from that whether or not to approve your claim. It is not going to be a life threatening experience unless you are just plain old lying your head off and so what? even if you don't win, you have lost nothing, you've given it your best shot.
BUt it's not at ALL uncommon to have them shut down any present client or employee who is supposed to be on your side or going to go to bat for you. Once you no longer work there, hey, you NO LONGER WORK THERE. Your job relationships and your 'he said/she said' b.s. and drama at this workplace are all over. You are out, and the best revenge is to move on and do better, hopefully with your unemployment benefits. Go for it, you should do fine, attorney or not, they won't be able to do anything but tell their story, and you have your story too. Tell it and let it be.