No Contact Order

[jslopez711]

What is the name of your state? TEXAS
I have a NO CONTACT ORDER againt my ex-girlfriend (whom I have a child with). He was found guilty of Phone Harrasement and pleaded guilty to the charge. However, he continues to answer the phone and continues to bother my ex when she talks to me and or gets on the other phone stating that he needs the phone when my ex and I are talking about our son. He continues to answer the phone and just speak, as if he knows who it is (caller id). Is he violating the NO CONTACT ORDER?

Belize, Stealth, and senior members please!

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

What is the name of your state? TEXAS
I have a NO CONTACT ORDER againt my ex-girlfriend (whom I have a child with). He was found guilty of Phone Harrasement and pleaded guilty to the charge. However, he continues to answer the phone and continues to bother my ex when she talks to me and or gets on the other phone stating that he needs the phone when my ex and I are talking about our son. He continues to answer the phone and just speak, as if he knows who it is (caller id). Is he violating the NO CONTACT ORDER?

Belize, Stealth, and senior members please!

If you could repost this so it is not a "Brain Teaser", it would be appreaciated.

 

[LdiJ]

What is the name of your state? TEXAS
I have a NO CONTACT ORDER againt my ex-girlfriend (whom I have a child with). He was found guilty of Phone Harrasement and pleaded guilty to the charge. However, he continues to answer the phone and continues to bother my ex when she talks to me and or gets on the other phone stating that he needs the phone when my ex and I are talking about our son. He continues to answer the phone and just speak, as if he knows who it is (caller id). Is he violating the NO CONTACT ORDER?

Belize, Stealth, and senior members please!

This is confusing. Can you please clarify? Who is "he" and what does he have to do with a no contact order that you have against your ex-girlfriend?...and if you have a no contact order against your ex-girlfriend then why would you be talking to her on the phone?

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

This is confusing. Can you please clarify? Who is "he" and what does he have to do with a no contact order that you have against your ex-girlfriend?...and if you have a no contact order against your ex-girlfriend then why would you be talking to her on the phone?

I think it is a math test.

 

[stealth2]

Ditto what the others said - your post makes no sense whatsoever.

 

[Reyna7]

How Odd

I usually have trouble with most post, the one that is written like this I understand..LOL

What he is saying is that his ex GF's husband/BF is the one causing trouble and who he has the no contact with.

Don't ask how I got that...I need more coffee.

 

[jslopez711]

What is the name of your state? TEXAS
I have a NO CONTACT ORDER againt my ex-girlfriend's (whom I have a child with) HUSBAND. He (HER HUSBAND) was found guilty of Phone Harrasement and pleaded guilty to the charge. He ( HER HUSBAND) was given 9 months probation, alcohol treatement other stuff and a No Contact Order through out his probation. However, he continues to answer the phone and continues to bother my ex when she talks to me about our son and/or gets on the other phone stating that "...he needs the phone" when my ex and I are talking about our son. He continues to answer the phone and just speak, as if he knows who it is (caller id) (What I mean by this is that he picks up the phone, instead of letting the machine answer, and just starts spouting off stuff. Is he violating the NO CONTACT ORDER?

Ok OK The missing word here is HUSBAND. Please re-read.

 

[BL]

It still don't make sense.

 

[shawna maples]

an opinion, w/out knowing the exact wording of the no contact order - he (the husband) lives there and most likely is permitted to answer the phone. With your just having been to court with your ex I'd say document, document and record the converstations for proof.

 

[jslopez711]

It still don't make sense.

Really! Sorry. I have a No Contact Order aginst my ex-girlfriend's husband. He was found guilty of Phone Harrasement (Class B misdameanor). See, the problem here is that when I'm talking to my ex about our kid he's always in the background spouting off stuff. To the point that my ex has to hang up and go outside and call me back to discuss our son's Dr visits, School, etc. I don't talk to her much but the times I do need to talk to her (maybe once per month) he's always yelling at her or at me in the background.

The DA never gave me a copy of the order. She (DA) just called me and told me the outcome. And she said he was to not contact me what so ever. I guess I need to discuss it with her right?

 

[jslopez711]

an opinion, w/out knowing the exact wording of the no contact order - he (the husband) lives there and most likely is permitted to answer the phone. With your just having been to court with your ex I'd say document, document and record the converstations for proof.

It's not that he answers the phone that stresess me out, is all the yelling at me he does when SHE is on the phone with me discussing stuff about our son that I'm mostly concerned with.

 

[stealth2]

And you can prove this..... how?

 

[BL]

First. I'd get a copy of that order so you can have it at hand , If need be .
You may never know when you need it.

Secondly, It appears you and your X have come up with ways to avoid this
yelling and screaming.

If you are on good terms with your X about discussing issues , see if you can set up two rings from your end , hang up,and have her call back from a private area ( without Loud mouth ) ever getting a chance to open it over the phone , as an alternative to her hanging up and calling back.

Or have her yell back at him to shut the hell up , your discussing your children . To not cause trouble .

 

[jslopez711]

And you can prove this..... how?

That's just it, I can't. My phone has recorded some of it (not all) but it's just him picking up the other phone and telling her stuff (hurry up, I need the phone) that sort of stuff.

 

[jslopez711]

First. I'd get a copy of that order so you can have it at hand , If need be .
You may never know when you need it.

Secondly, It appears you and your X have come up with ways to avoid this
yelling and screaming.

If you are on good terms with your X about discussing issues , see if you can set up two rings from your end , hang up,and have her call back from a private area ( without Loud mouth ) ever getting a chance to open it over the phone , as an alternative to her hanging up and calling back.

Or have her yell back at him to shut the hell up , your discussing your children . To not cause trouble .

My ex and I do not, by far, have a good relationship. However, when it comes to our son, we do talk with as much respect for eachother as we can muster. (just didn't want you to get the wrong idea about my relationship with her and all)

Yeah, we do try a lot to talk when ever he is not around. She does tell him to shut up. She does need to step outside most of the time to discuss our son's stuff but man, this dude goes out of his way.