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crackerarse
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Where did you get your GED?
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Lil Miss Smarty Panties
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Sorry Thor but you're gonna have to study on your own and take the test in your county, I can't help you with that. Are you still banned at sterns? 
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crackerarse
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WOW are you stupid, I don't know who you think I am, but I am not who you think...
Get back out on that corner and sell some BJ's, because you can really blow. What do they pay you $5 a job?
Get back out on that corner and sell some BJ's, because you can really blow. What do they pay you $5 a job?
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crackerarse
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Lil Miss Smarty Panties said:Sorry Thor but you're gonna have to study on your own and take the test in your county, I can't help you with that. Are you still banned at sterns?
Oh you thought I was your pimp. Nope, but thor probably thinks you should be working.
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Lil Miss Smarty Panties
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Thor, you are the only one who recycles the crude material over and over and over and over and....
Do you miss LS so much that you had to come to a legal forum to get your kicks? Why don't you just kiss & make up with Terry and go back? You know he'll forgive you. Hell, you know the way to FW, go there. There is a forum just for you to post on.
Do you miss LS so much that you had to come to a legal forum to get your kicks? Why don't you just kiss & make up with Terry and go back? You know he'll forgive you.
Hell, you know the way to FW, go there. There is a forum just for you to post on.
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NancyLou9
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Smarty Pants...
Maybe it's time we joined the rest of them and just leave this thread alone.
We've made our point and now we're just beating a dead crack whore (read: Kay and crackerarse, being the same person, I think).
See ya around all, this thread has gotten beyond ridiculous...
Maybe it's time we joined the rest of them and just leave this thread alone.
We've made our point and now we're just beating a dead crack whore (read: Kay and crackerarse, being the same person, I think).
See ya around all, this thread has gotten beyond ridiculous...
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mikang
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I've read this whole thread and I feel for the OP. All she did was ask for some advice and then Nancylou9, Tammy8, and Monickamommy had to step in and show how ignorant they are. I hope none of them are lawyers! If they are I feel for the clients. I sure hope they don't act this way around their children or stepchildren whichever they have. They have shown so much immaturity it's just awful. I have been where the OP is and I hope that everything turns out great for her. In my opinion, the three idiots just wanted to start something and if I was a mod here they would be banned. This is for advice not for bashing people. You three have shown your true colors and I hope that I never have to deal with someone like you. You three need to start your own thread and bash each other. You guys just took over this thread and I think it's because you have to be the center of attention wherever you are. You must not get enough attention at home so you come here and bash people, I guess it makes you feel good. I can't remember reading anything that the OP said bad about any of you, but you still kept your bashing her. It just showed me who the better person was, the OP is! She sounds like a very mature woman which I can't say for you three. I feel that if you don't have any advice for someone or have something nice to say than you just need to hit the back button and go on with your life. And if anyone needs counsling I think it would be the three of you because you sound very insecure. Please get a life!
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Star43
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nancy lou
Just a point to ponder. CS is calculated on what the wages are, a % or an agreed amount. The poster here said nothing about CS, and yeah, you can try to get more CS, but holding off visitation has nothing to do with the order of the amount of which to pay!!!! Now, after reading all the posts, I see that you are the one who has never received a dime(quote), Do you have a sore spot about CS? This woman wants to do what is best for the kids, she just wanted some advice on how to handle this stepmom. This has nothing to do with CS. CS doesn't stop adding up unless your dead or you have low income, then it can be modified. You cannot assume that you can get more CS because there is a problem with visitation, even if the father never sees the kids he still has to pay CS. If you had a child with someone who had a stable job then you would of had CS, thats all I have to say.
For resmom:
I would keep an eye out as much as possible as to what is going on over there, and I would have a nice conversation with the stepmom. But, the kids are obligated to see their father....... take it one day at a time. You are the Mom and you can talk to this woman and your X and tell them where SHE stands.
Also, nancylou, a divorce agreement is made between 2 parties. Not all divorces state in the order that the parents should not involve the children in adult going ons...........That is a joke, parenting classes tell you that and if you have a brain then anyone would understand that it is not a proper thing to do. But, been there done that, my child is quite mature to tell the truth to. It is up to each family how they handle their own situation. Divorce agreements contain legal things like property settlements, insurance, 401K, retirement etc....not stupid things like this...............What, do you go to court and whine and say that the father is involving the kids in the parents business?? Please........ Children are smarter than you think.
Just a point to ponder. CS is calculated on what the wages are, a % or an agreed amount. The poster here said nothing about CS, and yeah, you can try to get more CS, but holding off visitation has nothing to do with the order of the amount of which to pay!!!! Now, after reading all the posts, I see that you are the one who has never received a dime(quote), Do you have a sore spot about CS? This woman wants to do what is best for the kids, she just wanted some advice on how to handle this stepmom. This has nothing to do with CS. CS doesn't stop adding up unless your dead or you have low income, then it can be modified. You cannot assume that you can get more CS because there is a problem with visitation, even if the father never sees the kids he still has to pay CS. If you had a child with someone who had a stable job then you would of had CS, thats all I have to say.
For resmom:
I would keep an eye out as much as possible as to what is going on over there, and I would have a nice conversation with the stepmom. But, the kids are obligated to see their father....... take it one day at a time. You are the Mom and you can talk to this woman and your X and tell them where SHE stands.
Also, nancylou, a divorce agreement is made between 2 parties. Not all divorces state in the order that the parents should not involve the children in adult going ons...........That is a joke, parenting classes tell you that and if you have a brain then anyone would understand that it is not a proper thing to do. But, been there done that, my child is quite mature to tell the truth to. It is up to each family how they handle their own situation. Divorce agreements contain legal things like property settlements, insurance, 401K, retirement etc....not stupid things like this...............What, do you go to court and whine and say that the father is involving the kids in the parents business?? Please........ Children are smarter than you think.
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Star43
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agree with mikang!
Well you said it like I wanted to say it!! I agree with you, you posted the same time I did LOL!!! Sometimes this site is almost laughable.............
Well you said it like I wanted to say it!! I agree with you, you posted the same time I did LOL!!! Sometimes this site is almost laughable.............
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residentialmom
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Just a little update: When SM was arrested she was released with travel restricted between Iowa and Nebraska. Just found out last night that she is in Korea visiting with ex. Seems as if she just keeps going against the law. I will be going to her prelim hearing tomorrow. I want to know for myself what is going to happen. I'm sure she won't be there if she's out of the country.
mikang said:
Blah blah blah......
You have ONE post under your belt so apparently you have no experience under your belt in life of a stepfamily. I have almost 10 and you know what, I have been on both sides of what the OP is saying (a lot of accusing and arguing, etc). In a yr, what difference is it going to make?????
All I said in my entire TWO replies was that the OP seems to want all control over the children (common thing with bms) and that she seemed to believe that Stepmoms are the root of all problems and that gifts should be returned if asked.
When you get a little more experience under your belt you will realize that I spoke the truth.......
Carry on crew
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mikesonlyangel
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just because someone only has one post on here doesnt mean a darn thing, in life we sure don't have a posting system. and just because you have been here longer and posting longer doesn't mean that you know more or less then this poster. She may have had just as much experience as you, she just thinks that people should stick to the questions and not whoop someone after the fact. Good grief it is like a school playground in here, why not stick to the questions and agree to disagree.
I think everyone is confusing the OP's problem with other peoples gripes aired in this thread.
Bottom line OP's stepmom is going to hang herself on her own quite nicely with no help from the OP.
OP cannot take the law into her own hands and go against the court order.
She needs to amend the current order before she can deny visitation.
Bottom line OP's stepmom is going to hang herself on her own quite nicely with no help from the OP.
OP cannot take the law into her own hands and go against the court order.
She needs to amend the current order before she can deny visitation.
"All I said in my entire TWO replies was that the OP seems to want all control over the children (common thing with bms) and that she seemed to believe that Stepmoms are the root of all problems and that gifts should be returned if asked."
The ex's wife is the problem with the ex not apparently caring what his wife is doing and it was the ex that was demanding that the gifts he gave his kids should be returned to him.
Face it, the ex in not sticking up for his kids and placing his loyalty with his wife has shown his true colors.
Please show where the original poster "seems to want all control over the children".
The ex's wife is the problem with the ex not apparently caring what his wife is doing and it was the ex that was demanding that the gifts he gave his kids should be returned to him.
Face it, the ex in not sticking up for his kids and placing his loyalty with his wife has shown his true colors.
Please show where the original poster "seems to want all control over the children".
Hmmmmm
I have to say that I am with the "Residential Mom" on this one. I am a step mom and I would not DREAM of calliing the police for something like that. If she made a false accusation, who's to say that this "stepmom" won't make a false accusation against the Dad or the Bio Mom? I think she is nuts.
I don't think the "Dad" should be denied his rights to see the child, BUT I think the mother has every right to suggest that the visitation take place somewhere alternate. Away from the Step Mom just to make sure that all is kosher. You know?
Just play it safe, and I think all will be well. Take care RM.
PS: Haiku, as usual, makes a ton of sense.
I have to say that I am with the "Residential Mom" on this one. I am a step mom and I would not DREAM of calliing the police for something like that. If she made a false accusation, who's to say that this "stepmom" won't make a false accusation against the Dad or the Bio Mom? I think she is nuts.
I don't think the "Dad" should be denied his rights to see the child, BUT I think the mother has every right to suggest that the visitation take place somewhere alternate. Away from the Step Mom just to make sure that all is kosher. You know?
Just play it safe, and I think all will be well. Take care RM.
PS: Haiku, as usual, makes a ton of sense.
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