My hearing is set for this Monday. As instructed I faxed pertinent phone bills. I did retract (block out) all irrelevant calls, I hope this was alright. And get this, I am to appear by phone! The paper work said, "appear by phone" on one side and on the other side it says, "you must arrive on time or may not be heard." I called and was assured it was a telephone appearance. I also received the case file making me ware of what my employer stated. It really doesn't make a difference, I am just going to state my side of the events with evidence contact was made, and my shock to being terminated.
In the paper work they claimed I was repeatedly warned, this is completely not true, would they be obligated to produce documented warnings with my signature?
I was told it usually doesn't take longer than an hour. I am due to leave on a cruise with my children that day and will be driven to the port at the time of the call. I really did not want to postpone. It's my understanding it takes about three weeks for them to come back with a decision.
I have stopped the compulsion and feel calm and relaxed, thank you all again!