Wow...it just gets worse. 
I will just tell you this. My ex has been with his girlfriend (I dont THINK they are married) since before we seperated. Which would be about 2 years now. From what I can tell, the honeymoon is over. He is back to his old tricks of spending all the money and not being able to keep a job. I thought SHE could change him since I obviously couldnt. I thought since he gave up his wife and child for her that meant he was a different person with her. I cant figure if I am happy or sad to see that he hasnt changed any at all. At least I can say that my ex doesnt play those games with me, he shows up for his visitation pretty much all the time and he stays out of my life and I stay out of his.
I wish you the best of luck. I think you are going to need it.
Your husband is going to hang himself with his ex wife and visitation. I dont think there is anything you can do about it at this point but let it happen.

I will just tell you this. My ex has been with his girlfriend (I dont THINK they are married) since before we seperated. Which would be about 2 years now. From what I can tell, the honeymoon is over. He is back to his old tricks of spending all the money and not being able to keep a job. I thought SHE could change him since I obviously couldnt. I thought since he gave up his wife and child for her that meant he was a different person with her. I cant figure if I am happy or sad to see that he hasnt changed any at all. At least I can say that my ex doesnt play those games with me, he shows up for his visitation pretty much all the time and he stays out of my life and I stay out of his.
I wish you the best of luck. I think you are going to need it.
Your husband is going to hang himself with his ex wife and visitation. I dont think there is anything you can do about it at this point but let it happen.