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fozzy2

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To begin with, the military's practice of not refunding the $1,200 contribution is legally shaky. However, it is highly unlikely that you will want to fight an appellate battle against the U.S. government for a mere $1,200. So you won't be getting a refund.

There could be a way to get a discharge and get at least "month for month" benefits, meaning that you would get GI bill benefits at the rate of one month for every month served. You did not make it clear, but you did not say if you pressed charges for rape. You may want to consider it. First of all, the person who did it need to be dealt with. Secondly, if you can establish that you were the victim of a rape there is an exponentially higher chance that the military would agree to grant you a "hardship" discharge that would allow you to keep some benefits, as opposed to a voluntary parenthood discharge that will strip you of GI bill benefits. Legally speaking, when you take that voluntary discharge you are giving up those benefits.
 


navdoc

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There are quite a few single parents in the military that are not dragging down their units. I am one of them. There are several resources that you can use. But you have to do the legwork. There are several providers here in the Hampton Roads area of Virgina alone that do deployment care.
It seems that you are just sitting back and letting the cards fall where they may and deep down inside you really don't want to stay in. I know the navy just changed the deployment status of new mothers to a year now. I am sure that in even 6 months you could find someone that could care for your child while you are deployed.
Stop sitting on your ass and coming up with excuses and actually do something if you want to stay in like you claim.

Sailor2Soldier, I am a Corpsman stationed on an amphib here at NOB and you would not beleave how many females never even make it to the ship because of 'surprise' pregnancies.:rolleyes:
 

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