In respect for CJane's need for me to keep all my threads together
I am resurrecting this one....I received ex's answers to interrogatories, and have some question's. I have copied part of my original thread so that I may update the info- ex's answers in bold
2. An evasive or incomplete answer is deemed to be a failure to answer under Wis. Stat. 804.08, Rule 804.12, Wisconsin Rules of Civil Procedure.
INTERROGATORY NO. 2: Describe in detail the parenting responsibilities relating to (KIDDO) assumed by each party since the issuance of the most recent court order.
The parties have followed the current court order and Father has the child insured under his health insurance policy No mention of the fact that I also have the child insured, and I don't like this evasive answer
INTERROGATORY NO. 3: State the permanent legal and physical custody arrangements that you believe are in the best interests of the above mentioned minor child, and specifically address the parenting time each parent should have with him during the school year, summer, holidays and on special occasion days. Why do you believe custody should be arranged his way?
It is in the best interests of the child to be primarily placed with his father and to be placed with his mother every other weekend on a year round basis. It is in the best interests of the child to divide equally the holiday and vacation time he spends with each parent by alternating which parent has placement on Christmas and Thanksgiving and by alternating or dividing in half the Christmas break holiday. This schedule is in the best interests of the child because it is consistent with the child's wishes, it promotes stability for the child and it allows the child to in close proximity to the majority of his relatives. I
thought we weren't supposed to ask kids what they want
INTERROGATORY NO. 4: If you or any member of your household have been seen, tested, evaluated, or treated by any professional person such as a psychiatrist, psychologist, sociologist, social worker, family counselor, or other professional, since the issuance of the most recent court order, identify the professional by name, address and area of practice, state the date of each contact with the professional, explain the purpose of each contact, and indicate whether the contacts are continuing.
Child sees "school guidance counselor"
#3 (messed up on the cut/paste)Describe the role in the life of the child you think his Mother should play. What should her level of involvement be in all aspects of the child's life. Why?
The mother should cooperate with the father to promote the best interests of the minor child. The mother should cooperate in transporting the child to activities and should support the child's interests. The mother should be a consistent factor in the child's life and maintain a stable residence. The mother should cooperate with the father during those times that he is placed with the mother; as the mother expects the father to do the same. Am I wrong in reading that he basically just wants me to do whatever he says but not really be a "parent"? I don't know maybe I am being oversensitive
INTERROGATORY NO. 5: Identify the name, address and telephone number of all persons you intend to call as witnesses, expert or otherwise, in the hearing regarding modification of physical placement for the above mentioned minor child.
Ex, School Employees and any other witnesses that would support the father's position or rebut an allegation of the mother
INTERROGATORY NO. 6: For each of the witnesses identified in INTERROGATORY NO
6 state:
a. The substance of the facts and opinions to which the witness is expected to testify;
b. Any assumed facts upon which the witness will rely;
c. A summary of the grounds for each opinion;
d. The contents of any documents upon which the witness will rely.
All witnesses will testify that KIDDO is adjusting well to the placement schedule and that he is excelling at school both academically and socially All B's, 1 C, and 1 A- does not say excelling to me
INTERROGATORY NO. 8: For each criminal, civil, domestic abuse, incident reported to the police, or any other incident requiring police contact involving you, members of your household or your residence address since the issuance of the most recent court order, state the:
a. The nature and substance of the complaint or incident;
b. The county and state in which the complaint or incident occurred; and
c. The disposition of the complaint or incident.
d. Identify any persons who were witnesses to the incident.
For this one he neglected to list where Skeletor got into a huge fight with the neighbor and it turned physical to the point the neighbor got in her car and drove into Skeletor
INTERROGATORY NO. 10 Describe in detail, your efforts to encourage a loving relationship between the above mentioned minor child and his Mother.
I encourage telephone communication between KIDDO and his mother on a daily basis, always drop KIDDO off on time and abide by the court order.
INTERROGATORY NO. 11 Describe in detail, your efforts at co-parenting and communicating with the above mentioned minor child_s Mother.
Previous attempts to co-parent via telephone have not been successful. Email is now being utilized as the form of communication between the mother and I.
He also flat out lied in the interrogatories about how often he allows KIDDO to spend time with my mother
REQUEST FOR PRODUCTION OF DOCUMENTS
REQUEST NO 5: All forms completed by you, or a representative of yours, in the process of obtaining dental care for the above mentioned minor child.
No dental care, no dental problems. soooooo no teeth cleaning in 3 years?!!?!?!? is that neglect?
Dated: September 8, 2007
He provided NO documents except for email conversations between he and I, duh I already have those....everything else said see doctor office, or see school office or see sheriff's dept**************..can he do that?
he is the custodial parent, he has easy access to all of this information, I am three hours away.....should I file motion to compel?
I will have more questions later I'm sure....
