My main concern is not the clothes, meds, etc. The MAIN concern is that they have given me and the courts false addresses, taken her before and not returned her! The other concerns are only secondary. If you all say that they don't matter, then they don't. That's fine.
Like I said, my main concern is that they constantly move and don't provide me with the addresses, have given false addresses to me and the courts and refused to return her.
I don't agree that staying in a motel room is best but - the main point is - they will be moved frequently around the COUNTRY and I am VERY concerned about them moving places and not giving me correct information and/or not bringing her back, especially after they are mad because of the child support issues. And because they have made this a habit.
That is my main concern..... what do I do if they won't give me correct info and then don't return her (and because they have given false addresses etc. I have no idea even where to start looking)?
Thanks for everyones responses. As I said, My main concerns are not the clothes, etc. That is just my thoughts because I would not do that. But the Main problem is the false address etc. and if they choose not to return her, I would have no idea where to start looking because they will be all over the country, no one location.