i guess i am over reacting a bit....it's just the thought of IF he had the baby over there with him and was doing that...and i don't know...i know that i have unresolved issues with him, and animosity towards him so that causes me to look at him differently...
an outsider watching that video probably thinks wow that was stupid...i look at it and think OMG this is the father of my child WHAT WAS I THINKING?!
Peanut, we all understand the hormones. But relax. You might be completely surprised. Even the stupid guys can love their kids and take adequate care of them.
Give him a chance and don't automatically assume that he will be a bad father.