That is what my wife said. That she has no authority to suggest to the other party to modify visitation or question the visitation that was set by the court. I recieved a letter today from the magistrate. I saw the 1st error in the 3rd paragraph. The error is that it states that father request $20 per month towards 5,536.48 arrears. On my petition I wrote on there as well to keep having her pay 20.00 a week in arrears which was ordered by the judge on last contempt case. And on my net income she has it as $2,017.96 a month. But my health insurance is taken out of my check before taxes making my net 1298.86 a month. And the mothers net income is $1,214.57 a month. And 143.90 month for our daughters insurance and 257.50 for child care.(I sent a complaint letter to child support stating the magistrate refused portion of child care cost for when school was not in session and had proof of what I paid so at least the letter helped because that amount is accurate) On the magistrates remondation she has the mother paying 37.57% or $386.23 per month or 89.13 per week. However recommends a 5% deviation because mother is the only working parent supporting to other children that she be ordered to pay 366.92 per month and did say mother owes retro active 2,201.52 but not when to pay it. That makes her owing 7,738 in arrears now. Heres the kicker in the last paragraph it states Children are entitled to frequent and continuing contact with both parents. A visitation schedule states only minimum contact, so the parties should confer and agree on additional visits often. In our visitation agreement is very thourgh. Every other weekend starting from Friday at 6:00pm which I take her there to Monday mornig the mother is suppose to take her to school. ( which she has only done once since the agreement all other times she brings her home on Sunday by mother choice) Every other Wednesday mother is suppose to pick her up after school and bring her back to school the next morning(never does it)Alternating Thanksgiving and Christmas, spring break, winter vactation1/2, halloween, easter. Mother had declined summer vacation because she could not afford it.