No. This is ALL ABOUT what your son did. He needs to be responsible for HIS OWN ACTIONS. The fact that you excuse them is pathetic.
As i have already explained, my son had his day in court and he has paid his debt to society. In juvenile court the judge specifically stated "BOTH PARENTS are responsible for the courts fines and fees", and yet it took me spending more money and taking time off work, and going to court, to get her to pay those expenses, and you want to sit here and defend HER? start addressing what SHE allowed to happen in her house. I have not excused anything. Your whole commenting is a red herring, and completely off topic. My son's actions are irrelevant.
Explain to me how, in the eyes of the law, my ex wife is allowed to not pay for expenses incurred by our son? It doesnt matter what he did and it doesnt matter what his age is. Your opinion is that he should have to repay the expenses. that is not the law.
So, unless you have something helpful to provide, please, keep our comments to yourself.