Seeking information about father

[lorigay]

My mother married in 1962, had me and my father left in 1963. I did not have any contact with anyone from father's side of the family until about 1992/1993. Was in contact with Grandmother at that time. Lost contact with her awhile later. Last known address for her is a Victoria, BC address. Between 1994 and present there is the possibility that something may have happened to her. Because I am her biological grandchild is there any obligation on the part of other family members to get into contact with me to make me aware that something has happened. Also, even though I am an adult is there any legal or financial obligation on the part of my biological father who has not been in contact with me since the day he walked out on my mother.

Thank You

Lori B

 

[identitycrisis]

Not legal advice, but hope it helps

Hi Lori,

You may want to try visiting the following URL:
http://www.refdesk.com/index.html
It contains links to many "people finder" sites that may provide information on ways and means of finding your father. Some of the organizations do the searching for you for a fee, but others simply provide the information you'd need to perform the search yourself. For example, there are links to various repositories of vital records info that might be of help in tracking down your dad.

I realize this doesn't answer your question about any legal obligation your dad might have toward you; I'm not a lawyer so I really can't address that question. But at least these sites might help you locate him, and that's a start.

Good luck to you.
Regards,
"identitycrisis"

 

[Grandma B]

Lori, your father was obligated to provide child support for you until (depending on your state) you were 18 or 19 and/or graduated from high school. However, it was up to your mother to pursue the support matter and she must not have done so. If she had made efforts to collect child support before your 18th birthday, he would still be liable and she (not you) could collect it if you located him.