truebluemd
Senior Member
sipa, i know you dont want advice from me, but he needs to respond in a very civil, no cival, manner
sipa, i know you dont want advice from me, but he needs to respond in a very civil, no cival, manner
Braces -- Have they had orthodontic consult? How old is the child? Do they have all their permanent teeth?
Also, "shearly" is spelled "sheerly".
Not everything in your proposal NEEDS to be agreed to so if Mom doesn't agree, Dad can't therefore expect to go to court and WIN on those points ie. in addition to the pictures of the home (are you kidding me?!? lol) the life insurance is not going to be required.
Braces -- Have they had orthodontic consult? How old is the child? Do they have all their permanent teeth?
Also, "shearly" is spelled "sheerly".
Not everything in your proposal NEEDS to be agreed to so if Mom doesn't agree, Dad can't therefore expect to go to court and WIN on those points ie. in addition to the pictures of the home (are you kidding me?!? lol) the life insurance is not going to be required.
I understand WHY the requirement was there, tried to put it into mine, as well, but judge refused to order it when Dad didn't agree. And, you're getting a little testy for someone that ASKED for help.Ok can we stop with the spelling bee quiz---- it was funny for a while...
3 consults, three quotes, 13 years old, permanents are gone.
I agree with the house I told him that was out of line---since I have to type it that will be conviently dropped so he does not look like a hinnie hole
The life insurance thing- funny you should say that, that was actually brought up by my ex in his court doc's and added to my order by the judge as being required by both he and I. That was fine with me as I carry 6 x my pay in life insurance anyway, he purchased his out right.
This is the same judge that will reside over this case so he may actually have a very good chance at that.
It is a smart move on any parents part and should be a requirement in any case.
She will not agree to the braces on that kids teeth first and foremost sad part is SHE (his ex) would be stunning had someone put braces on her teeth.
To clarify the braces, the childs teeth like her mothers has a bite that is off and will have an impact down the road.
There is also a stacking of teeth one on top of the other. Her mother is now in the process of getting her overlapping teeth pulled as they are causing issues in her own mouth with crowding and cavities. So yes they are medically necc..
Let me clarify ear infections-this is an EXAMPLE
I have had 7 sets of tubes myself and my kids have had two sets. I know the research associated with them
So let me provide a different example of lack of medical treatment only for reasons of you guys having a better understanding.
3 year old child falls hurts arm, arm swells like a balloon. 24 hours later said Child is sent to school, school nurse calls Mom child in unbelievable pain, arm is obviously broke. Mom tells her she does not have time to take the child to the hospital her arm is fine that child needs to tough it out.
School nurse having dealt with Mother prior hangs up and calls Dad who goes and takes child to hospital.
This list goes on but this is not a Mom bashing session this is a help make things reasonable so two kids don't get ripped apart with Custodial moving out of state. And that Dad gets to keep some type of relationship with his kids.
I hope this clarifies.
He is asking for his proposal, he told her he would like to submit what his ideas are to her as well for review. She said that was fine, then told a friend, "he will get what I give him" as if its a gift soooo
Honestly, if Mom is that negligent, then Dad should be going for custody and the nurse should have called CPS to report that Mother was purposely denying her child urgent medical care.