mistybeakley said:
to the one who said he has children in many states and haas abandoned them he had one child in another state, his first child, he now has custody. 4 children is not that many children, my grandmother had 15. You have no idea why the relationships failed, you have no right to judge. He treats me and his children great. If he was so UNFIT why would the courts take the children away from there mothers custody and give them to their father?
Here is what you said:
mistybeakley said:
What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? missouri
my boyfriend has a 7 year old daughter whose mother is living in oklahoma and the daughter lives in arkansas but we live in missouri. The daughter is living with the grandparents. I heard that there was a law since they were never married that they have equal rights and he could just go pick up his duaghter and keep her and the mother would have to take him to court. The grandparents we have heard have power of attorney of child.
and later:
mistybeakley said:
he only has those two girls "OUT THERE"....hes paying so much child support,which he is paying and has been paying all along.
rmet4nzkx said:
If he can't afford an attorney and he can't get social services to work with him, how is he going to prove that he is able to support them if he does get custody?
mistybeakley said:
social services in this area doesnt work with anyone.Greene county is going through a lot of legal trouble right now.he supports all of them right now he pays child support faithfully even to the child who he has most of the time plus he supports me and my two children just fine,but he doesnt have that kind of money just lying around to hire a lawyer because he DOES support his family.He does go to the lawyers and he does ask his own questions,but he works all day and I'm here and I'm asking the questions for my own curiosity.
and now you deny this has to do with child support?
mistybeakley said:
p.s... it has nothing to do with money..it has everything to do with the child being raised by someone who for 15 months intentionally alienated the child from her father. Raped her of her chance to know and love her. ,,,,,he loves children he has 3 others besides her.
This is but a small part of your claims, but this amounts to him having 3 children in at least two other states outside of Missouri, last itme I looked Oaklahoma and Arkansas were both outside Missouri, although I am told that Southern Missouri and Arkansas are one in the same
You started your other thread, also trying to kidnap the child from the grandparents who had custody, to avoid child support the same as you wanted to do here, kidnap the child, which you already knew was wrong. That usually means he didn't have custody, in August by your own admission, he didn't have custody of any (3) of them and paid a lot in child support making it difficult for him to support YOUR 2 children, since then you were evicted and now he has this new child and once again is trying to get out of child support.
It is difficult to help you, or sort out his lies from yours. When we give you advice you don't listen and make outlandish statements.
If you want to keep custody of your children, I suggest you get as far away from this man as possible and never leave him alone with any of them until you do. Do not help him he is using you.
As for your grandmother's 15 children, times were different and I'll bet your grandfather provided for his family and didn't have numerous children by as many mothers unless they were married. Your boy friend may in fact have 15 children, their mothers may not have caught up with him.
