"Let's not forget TToby in this discussion."
*** Sorry about that!!
"By the trial date, she'll be 8 months pregant. Do you think she'd be able to get a continuance for a few months or more?"
*** Unless there is some other medical complication other than a 'simple' pregnancy, no.
"I haven't been contacted by them in at least 6 years."
*** As previously noted, get your SOL information. That will tell you LOTS about what next steps might be. If the SOL has truly expired, then simply show up and offer that as your defense. If you have not received the requested validation information (or response to pre-trial discovery), then use that as the reason to reset the trial date.
"They had me served last Thurs at my POE. The suit has an address that I haven't lived at for 7 years and it has my maiden name (I've been married for 2 years)."
*** Though these might go to support your claim of SOL expiration (by dating), these are irrelevant in value.
"Were they supposed to try and contact me regarding the debt before sending the summons?"
*** There is no obligation for them to 'pre-contact' you.
"I will be sending the validation request today with a payment history request also. Are they required to send me these before my court date (which is 8/11)? What if they don't? Does the case get pushed back? Will I lose because I have no evidence?"
*** See above. If they have not sent you the required information, ALL efforts must stop... including the lawsuit. Simply let the court know that they have failed to comply... and that any furtherence would be in violation of the FDCPA.
"Last but not least....
I am 7 months pregnant and won't be working in a few months. If I should lose, they will have no paychecks to garnish. Can they come after assets my husband and I have? (House, cars, bank accounts)"
*** If you lose, they can go after any non-exempt assets in the judgment debtors name. That would be anything owned by you, either in single name or joint.