Step son stuck in the middle...

[jslopez711]

Have any of y'all confronted the nutty ex's with their crazy statements??

Yes, unfortunatelly my ex's husband is a real Rat ******* and she does nothing about it.

 

[SMURFEELAW]

It just seems to me that what she said is totally EXTREME. My husbands never once laid a hand on me and my step son knows that..
I'm the woman in my step son's life that does EVERYTHING for him. I do ALL of the "mommy" things and I also do "friend" things. It makes me glad that he can confide in me now when he's got to tell me something.

My step son also said that he does not want to bring it up to his mom for the time being. He thinks he'd get in trouble. We told him if he does bring it up to her, she's gonna say that we're lying, but he know's the real truth. It just get's me that he thought it was for real for 2 years because of her bitterness.

I just don't get some people's thinking, rather, NON thinking!!!

Thanks for all of y'alls input. It makes me feel a little better that We're not alone..

Been there done that. I'm a step-mom in AZ my hubby just got custody in Oct. b/c mom tested positive for meth in Court. My SD is five and does not know what mom is. but she does know that mom has only seen her four times since August 1st and goes weeks w/o calling and continues to make and break promises. She also knows that WE love her and I am not her mom but would do anything for her. Mom actually came at the end of Feb. (has not seen her since thanksgiving) for 24 hours she stayed at my mom-in-laws house I also stayed the night. My sd looked directly at her mom and called me momma and told her she called me momma now too. this was not coached or recognized by me b/c she does call me mom once in awhile but much more often by my name I think she was just speaking out to let mom know she had hurt her.
Hang in there and he doesn't need to know the sorted details of the divorce he knows the truth. My husband and I applaud you and your hubbys control and obvious love for the child.

Kudos to you and all others that have posted and taken the high road!!!!!!