Subpoena for husbands child support

[PADadandMom]

Your husband's ex wants to know if he transferred any assets to you, or put new assets in your name only, which is a reasonable request (if he did, you both should be in jail, him for doing it and you for allowing it) however, if you are both being honest, then simply prove the truth by producing the documents that prove the truth.
Vacation? You would be alot better off canceling it for two reasons-1-if you can afford a luxury like a vacation, your husband can afford to pay arrears and 2- when he goes to court he will be ordered to pay a lump sum amount called a purge (usually is very high) or else go to jail.
Good luck, but I hope you get your priorities straight- his kids come first period.

If the kids come first then why in the $#@! would he be behind on support? And why would he hide assets from those who DESERVE to reap from what he has. Those kids all come before you and him. As parents that is part of what we expect once we have a child.

 

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

You are right on the money; as you "usually" are. Yet with your knowlege, I can't seem to figure out why you stoop to the level of name calling all the time . Your intelligence speaks for itself but your name calling makes you sound as though you have some sort of inferiority complex. Still love your posts though.

My response:

My "inferiority complex" is that I am of the sincere belief that everyone else is inferior to me.

When I use epithets like "idiot", "dolt", "trailer trash", etc., it saves me time and energy from having to write paragraphs about how I actually feel about someone. In other words, it's a time-saver.

So, if I should ever have to refer to you as an "idiot", please be assured that there's an entire paragraph of descriptive words behind it that I didn't use. I'm a big believer in "economy of energy".

Thanks for the backhanded compliment.

IAAL

 

[PADadandMom]

My response:

My "inferiority complex" is that I am of the sincere belief that everyone else is inferior to me.

When I use epithets like "idiot", "dolt", "trailer trash", etc., it saves me time and energy from having to write paragraphs about how I actually feel about someone. In other words, it's a time-saver.

So, if I should ever have to refer to you as an "idiot", please be assured that there's an entire paragraph of descriptive words behind it that I didn't use. I'm a big believer in "economy of energy".

Thanks for the backhanded compliment.

IAAL

You are more than welcome for the compliment. Keep in mind though, that no one really cares what each of us personally thinks of the person posting. The point of being at this sight is for information not degration.

Again, your advice is always good once we get past reading the petty insults so why not just "economize all of your negative energy". Your good at what you do so just stick to the ADVICE. Have a great day.

 

[dcsr]

Kids First

If the kids come first then why in the $#@! would he be behind on support? And why would he hide assets from those who DESERVE to reap from what he has. Those kids all come before you and him. As parents that is part of what we expect once we have a child.

I understand that when I married him, I took on the responsibility of helping take care of his kids (financially, physically, and emotionally). For years, I was the one taking them to the doctor, dentist, eye exams. When they would get sick at school, I would go pick them up because "Mommy" was too busy. I didn't & don't have a problem with that!! I love those 2 kids just as much as I love my own. We have talked about full custody, but mommy won't hear of it. (probably because she's afraid she might have to pay us) My husband has never stopped paying his child support!! Approximately 4 years ago, the child support was raised, and up until last November, he lowered (without a modification) to the original amount. This is where the problem has come in. How could he hide assets? What should I be looking at or into to try to find these hidden assets? Once again, any help would be appreciated.

dcsr

 

[haiku]

Approximately 4 years ago, the child support was raised, and up until last November, he lowered (without a modification) to the original amount. This is where the problem has come in. How could he hide assets? What should I be looking at or into to try to find these hidden assets? Once again, any help would be appreciated.

dcsr

no defense there....you CANNOT lower your support without a court ordered modification. So in effect, yes, your husband is not paying his court ordered support.
, and does seem to be spending the money that is court ordered for his kids on other "fun" stuff.

 

[PADadandMom]

You can't just modify your own support

no defense there....you CANNOT lower your support without a court ordered modification. So in effect, yes, your husband is not paying his court ordered support.
, and does seem to be spending the money that is court ordered for his kids on other "fun" stuff.

Once support is court mandated, you just can't go ahead and modify it when ever you want. Unless, you go to the domestic relations department of your court house and ASK for a modification. They will schedule a meeting and hear your reasoning then modify up or down according to their findings. Legally he is behind because he didn't pay what the court ORDERED and if he doesn't get it up to date, he will be spending time in the slammer.

As far as hidden assets...his ex must have some idea, therefore you must also. It could be as simple as recent tax refunds, inheritence, capital gain from a business or investment...all of which he could have put into your name.

Doing what you do for his children is part of what you bought into when you married him. Welcome to the nightmare! It could be worse, the mother could be a real you know what and insist you not take the kids any where or do anything unless DAD is with. Since she is the "mother" and custodial parent usually that persons time is more tied up then the NCP. Therefore the NCP's spouse winds up picking up the pieces and looking at the CP as a horrible unfit person. Usually that's not the case, they just need and welcome the help and loving care of others for their children.