summer issues

[MinCA]

If Dad had custody, and Mom got the six weeks, and Dad was being petty on a couple days' difference, I would tell him the same thing. NCP not shown to be unsafe, or even alleged, and yet CP is complaining over a couple das lost in the whole year. It goes either way.

Trust me-I know there are rotten dads out there, just as there are rotten moms, but the rotten moms are still seen in a more favorable light than good dads.

I'm completely for 50/50 in cases in which neither parent is unfit.

 

[djohnson]

If Dad had custody, and Mom got the six weeks, and Dad was being petty on a couple days' difference, I would tell him the same thing. NCP not shown to be unsafe, or even alleged, and yet CP is complaining over a couple das lost in the whole year. It goes either way.

Trust me-I know there are rotten dads out there, just as there are rotten moms, but the rotten moms are still seen in a more favorable light than good dads.

I'm completely for 50/50 in cases in which neither parent is unfit.

This may be the smartest thing you have said. But you are yet to use this 'knowledge' to help someone here. You just keep going back to your own personal problems and issues and forgetting this common sense stuff.

 

[MinCA]

When people complain about what they do have, I'm trying to put it in perspective for them that they have more than some people.

This Mom is complaining that she may lose a couple days this summer, yet dad is no where near seeing his child 50% of the time. The child is 50% of each parent, and for one to feel entitled to more time, or to complain about a coule days when she already has the majority of the time, pisses me off.

 

[djohnson]

When people complain about what they do have, I'm trying to put it in perspective for them that they have more than some people.

This Mom is complaining that she may lose a couple days this summer, yet dad is no where near seeing his child 50% of the time. The child is 50% of each parent, and for one to feel entitled to more time, or to complain about a coule days when she already has the majority of the time, pisses me off.

State that with becoming pissed off and someone may listen to you. Until then, the only that comes across is your pissy attitude and no cares and automatic human nature is to rebel against it. You need to learn how to make decisions and speak without becoming so childish and immature and you will become a better person and more listened to.

 

[MinCA]

Johnson, shut it. You are a cruel person.

Trust me-I'm a better person than you. If you took what you do with your life and what I do with my life, and compared them side-by-side, you'd learn a thing or two. Neglecting one's own health, dedicating one's life to helping others, sacrificing all you have to help, and thanking God for the ability to do so.

 

[stealth2]

Placing oneself on a pedestal is never attractive.

 

[MinCA]

I don't place myself on a pedestal, but if someone is going to slam the type of person I am without knowing who I am and what I do, I am simply going to point out a small part of who I am, who she is insulting. To tell me I need to become a better person shows she already placed herself on a pedestal above me.

 

[djohnson]

I can only speak of how you come off here. That has not changed. I try to give you advise on how to come off better and you still fly off the handle in a rage. You aren't helping anyone. I haven't stated anything cruel, only facts based on information you have given and the way you state them. Your boasting on yourself doesn't impress me as I am sure they don't mean that much compared to what many people for others. Don't judge the people here on their personal life and ASSume they don't help or do even more than yourself. They (we) are here to help with legal advice and not go off on tangents and judging everyone based on our own personal situation. You can keep sprouting off and make yourself look worse if you want, but if you notice I haven't stooped to your level, I'm trying to advise you in an adult manner that perhaps you don't understand. You need to go back and reread all the posts as I stated in your other one and compare what is being said and what is behind it. Maybe you will see where the problem lies, but I doubt it at this point because you are too wrapped up in yourself. For a person who claims to help others so much, you sure don't seem like, you come off as selfish. I can just imagine in reality.