What is the name of your state?
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sometimes yes!!! But for the most part, I feel like I'm the one who is in control of the situation. I'm having the baby, I'm making the plans, and I'm going to do the right thing whether he does or not. He can't hurt me any more than he did by cheating on me (I cried in fetal position for days, which may have also been the hormones), but the I decided to be the one in control.
I gave him the big, one-finger salute - and decided to move on and make my family the best I can. I have a great family who have offered their unending support, great friends, and I will provide for this baby. I may be eating mac and cheese and wearing walmart - but dammit my kid is gonna be cute! My baby is the biggest blessing, so I can't fault my ex for that - he may be the best sperm donor ever! Lord knows he donates a lot of it
Man, none of that was legal advice... sorry seniors.
but I hope it helps!
Not sure why your thread got closed... but here's the reply
Are you bitter and feel like you need to get even?
sometimes yes!!! But for the most part, I feel like I'm the one who is in control of the situation. I'm having the baby, I'm making the plans, and I'm going to do the right thing whether he does or not. He can't hurt me any more than he did by cheating on me (I cried in fetal position for days, which may have also been the hormones), but the I decided to be the one in control.
I gave him the big, one-finger salute - and decided to move on and make my family the best I can. I have a great family who have offered their unending support, great friends, and I will provide for this baby. I may be eating mac and cheese and wearing walmart - but dammit my kid is gonna be cute! My baby is the biggest blessing, so I can't fault my ex for that - he may be the best sperm donor ever! Lord knows he donates a lot of it

Man, none of that was legal advice... sorry seniors.
but I hope it helps!