chrisdizz22
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What is the name of your state? IOWA
Tonight i got served with papers, "Child In Need Of Assistance" petition, because my ex Girl friend whom I had A daughter with, let her boyfriend watch my daughter whle she was at work- and she ended up getting a spiral fracture in her leg- my daughter told the Protective services people that the guy who did it was mad and pulled on her leg- the story i got from her mother was that she fell- prior to receiveing this petition. I dont have much contact with my daughter because id would rather not have anything to do with her mother. so i dont really know whats going on, but i do believe that my ex is not a good mother or even fit to have another human being dependent on her. I few months ago i called the DHS on her because she was accusing some guy of teaching a dog to molest my daughter- i thought that they would take her away then, but they did not, she keeps leaving my daughter with young drug abusing people, and often stays at different mens houses. and i have a problem with young men being around my daughter.
so anyway the DHS took my daughter from my ex a couple days ago, and just served me papers tonight that say i need to go to a hearing.in the papers it says some stuff about me that i believe to be bordline liable, it says" Putative father has also had numerous police contacts, many of the domestic disturbance and restraining order violation variety" for one i have never been arrested for two the domestic disturbance was my ex hitting ME and ME calling the cops and having her arrested, and they judge she saw filed a no contact order between the two of us, but didnt send me a copy, so i called her a couple days later and asked her if i could come and get my stuff that was at her house ( i had like $2000 worth of guitar stuff there) and she said that there was a no contact order and hung up on me and called the police, they called me and threatened me, and told me that they were comming to arrest me, but when they finally figured out that i had no clue about the no contact order they appoligzed. a couple weeks later i called down to the police station to see if they would help me get my stuff back from my ex's house, they asked what i needed and i told them my guitar stuff and they said that i could only collect personal items such as toothbrushes and such, but told me that if i had someone else call and ask my ex's mother if i could pick up my stuff or if she could arrange for me to get it somewhere, so i had my stepfather call but no one answered and, about an hour later i had the cops calling me and threatening to arrest me again, but when i finally explained that i didnt call and the call wasnt meant for my ex it was meant for her mother who owned the house, so i could get my stuff. they helpedme arrange a time to have my parents come and get my stuff for me. and they did and i didnt have a problem from there on- and on thoses occasions that i just explained i never did anything wrong, but on this petition they are wording it so that it sound as if im some sort of stalker. and i think they are trying to take both of our parental rights away, im not sure what to do about this, i always knew that my ex would mess up and gett my daughter taken away from her, but how did they implement me into all of this, why do they want to take my parental rights away, im not a criminal or a trouble maker and have served my coutry on active duty and am currently in the national guard, and i definatly dont want my daughter to grow up in foster care. im really lost as to why they didnt notify me when this happened and what i can do to get my daughter out of this bad situation. and if the statement about me wasnt so vauge, id sue the DA for liable, because its clearly trying to make me sound bad- and i think im goiing to call him tomorrow and share my displeasure in the wording of his statement
Tonight i got served with papers, "Child In Need Of Assistance" petition, because my ex Girl friend whom I had A daughter with, let her boyfriend watch my daughter whle she was at work- and she ended up getting a spiral fracture in her leg- my daughter told the Protective services people that the guy who did it was mad and pulled on her leg- the story i got from her mother was that she fell- prior to receiveing this petition. I dont have much contact with my daughter because id would rather not have anything to do with her mother. so i dont really know whats going on, but i do believe that my ex is not a good mother or even fit to have another human being dependent on her. I few months ago i called the DHS on her because she was accusing some guy of teaching a dog to molest my daughter- i thought that they would take her away then, but they did not, she keeps leaving my daughter with young drug abusing people, and often stays at different mens houses. and i have a problem with young men being around my daughter.
so anyway the DHS took my daughter from my ex a couple days ago, and just served me papers tonight that say i need to go to a hearing.in the papers it says some stuff about me that i believe to be bordline liable, it says" Putative father has also had numerous police contacts, many of the domestic disturbance and restraining order violation variety" for one i have never been arrested for two the domestic disturbance was my ex hitting ME and ME calling the cops and having her arrested, and they judge she saw filed a no contact order between the two of us, but didnt send me a copy, so i called her a couple days later and asked her if i could come and get my stuff that was at her house ( i had like $2000 worth of guitar stuff there) and she said that there was a no contact order and hung up on me and called the police, they called me and threatened me, and told me that they were comming to arrest me, but when they finally figured out that i had no clue about the no contact order they appoligzed. a couple weeks later i called down to the police station to see if they would help me get my stuff back from my ex's house, they asked what i needed and i told them my guitar stuff and they said that i could only collect personal items such as toothbrushes and such, but told me that if i had someone else call and ask my ex's mother if i could pick up my stuff or if she could arrange for me to get it somewhere, so i had my stepfather call but no one answered and, about an hour later i had the cops calling me and threatening to arrest me again, but when i finally explained that i didnt call and the call wasnt meant for my ex it was meant for her mother who owned the house, so i could get my stuff. they helpedme arrange a time to have my parents come and get my stuff for me. and they did and i didnt have a problem from there on- and on thoses occasions that i just explained i never did anything wrong, but on this petition they are wording it so that it sound as if im some sort of stalker. and i think they are trying to take both of our parental rights away, im not sure what to do about this, i always knew that my ex would mess up and gett my daughter taken away from her, but how did they implement me into all of this, why do they want to take my parental rights away, im not a criminal or a trouble maker and have served my coutry on active duty and am currently in the national guard, and i definatly dont want my daughter to grow up in foster care. im really lost as to why they didnt notify me when this happened and what i can do to get my daughter out of this bad situation. and if the statement about me wasnt so vauge, id sue the DA for liable, because its clearly trying to make me sound bad- and i think im goiing to call him tomorrow and share my displeasure in the wording of his statement