Unfit Father

[styl4u64]

Exactly!

I seriously doubt it is in the best interest for a little girl to grow up in a home with a stepfather who uses such foul language!!!!!! Do you kiss that girl goodnight with that mouth???? Soap and water asap......

Control Freak! You are attacking complete strangers that answer the truth! Go get Yourself some help, I'm more worried about the little girl in 'your'
care' with that mouth, no wonder CPS looked the other way with you, I hope they soon LOOK AT YOU!

 

[casa]

okay, i REALIZE that the courts will look at it like im just trying to be an , but *I* KNOW that he's smoking pot, he was married to my fiance for 2 years, and she NEVER knew him to smoke cigarettes, but she ALWAYS knew him to smoke pot, and as i mentioned before, WHO smokes tobacco out of a purple metal pipe? (by the way, thats my step-daughters words and observations, not mine) all i want is input on HOW to go about GETTING PROOF!

Something you should consider before helping instigate a custody war over a child that is not yours~ The mother condoned the father's drug use while they were together, but now that they are not together, she's willing to try to use it against the father to get custody. The mother allowing it continually for years in her (& her child's) presence/home is the same thing the father is doing now.

Poor kid~ Her mother's a hypocrite, Her father's a druggie and her stepfather wants to start fighting between her parents.

 

[AHA]

Control Freak! You are attacking complete strangers that answer the truth! Go get Yourself some help, I'm more worried about the little girl in 'your'
care' with that mouth, no wonder CPS looked the other way with you, I hope they soon LOOK AT YOU!

Where have I ever mentined a girl in my care, where have a ever mentioned I have a child custody/suppoort case??????????????? Since you don't know squat about me, where the hell do you get off making stuff up???? YOU GET HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Pathetic loser

 

[AHA]

Control Freak! You are attacking complete strangers that answer the truth! Go get Yourself some help, I'm more worried about the little girl in 'your'
care' with that mouth, no wonder CPS looked the other way with you, I hope they soon LOOK AT YOU!

Not to mention the volume it speaks by your reaction at someone asking a person claiming to be the best dad to watch their language!!!!!, when so many way uglier cases are posted on this forum!!! You need to get priorities straight and focus that defence on the more vicious posts.
I just asked him to clean up his language, for god's sake. CALM DOWN!!!!!!!

 

[casa]

Where have I ever mentined a girl in my care, where have a ever mentioned I have a child custody/suppoort case??????????????? Since you don't know squat about me, where the hell do you get off making stuff up???? YOU GET HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Pathetic loser

ummm....I think styl4u64 was quoting your response and agreeing with it (by the title: "Exactly!") and then adding her own comments to the OP underneath (since it was OP who was speaking of CPS etc.)

 

[stealth2]

ummm....I think styl4u64 was quoting your response and agreeing with it (by the title: "Exactly!") and then adding her own comments to the OP underneath (since it was OP who was speaking of CPS etc.)

Rereading it, I think casa's right. Tho my first read took it as a slam agains AHA. Peeps - don't write like you think. It's not always, uuuhhh, comprehensible.

 

[styl4u64]

Sorrrrrrrrrrry!

EXACTLY!!~~ How I thought about what YOU wrote AHA. I meant this to be to the poster, sorry for the misunderstanding styls

 

[bliss_in_texas]

Well, here's the deal. What YOU would like to see happen is pretty much moot. You're not the child's parent.

I do not know why people keep saying this..
The fact of the matter *seems* to be that the new partner has a great deal of influence on the cases. My ex repeatedly names his fiancee/wife (not sure what she is) in his custody suit. I think he is trying to show that they are more "stable" than a single parent. (something I find amusing in a sad way)
When a social study is conducted, the new partner is interviewed, yes? And who knows who is really controlling the behind the scenes motivation of the other party. We all know that many times the new step-parent is egging on the bio parent. The point I am making here is that it's practical to "think" that the partner of your ex doesn't have a say, but in reality, they are saying an awful lot. And once your child is out of your site, as you follow the court orders, who knows what is going on in the other household, especially when the child is too young to know when something is "bad" or good.
I realize that the law states that the step has no say, but in truth, they really do. Sorry, ranting.

 

[tigger22472]

.......this man is unfit for any kind of parental duties, and of course my fiance is scared to "take her daddy away"

This is the most important point of all of this. Obviously either mom doesn't see a problem or a problem big enough to make an issue out of it. You seem to be the one that wants these things... Not once did you say that mom wanted these things and that IS what matters. So, either your g/f believes that dad is a good dad and that the child benefits from the relationship and you are butting in and she should get rid of YOU. OR, dad really is as bad as you say and she doesn't see it, doesn't want to see it or doesn't care which means YOU should get rid of her if this is not how you think children should be raised or that she has different ideas on the situation. No matter what YOU think the issue lies with mom and no matter what happens you have no say on what happens as far as custody, visitation situations or what not. If in fact these things are happening and mom doesn't do anything about it, it could come back to haunt her also as if she's not doing anything to protect her child the state could take that duty from her... but that's HER problem.