The lady sure does use the word "drunk" alot.
Maybe cuz' she's drunk

The lady sure does use the word "drunk" alot.
Maybe cuz' she's drunk![]()
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Illinois
This unmarried couple are both 25. Dad is responsible, mom is bipolar angry drunk who acts more like an 18 yr old on spring break whenever she can. She could careless about the baby when she wants to go out drinking, which lately is quite often. Dad stays home while she goes out, only to have her come back at 3am smashed & ready to fight.
There is no custody agreement, but dad has signed birth certificate. If he calls police during one of this mom's drunker outbursts, will police let him leave for the night with baby? If he cannot leave with baby because there is no custody agreement, where does that leave him and the baby? Are they both supposed to just deal with the drunken mom? It's her apt they live in - he's not on the lease. She gets subsidised housing. If he wants to leave so he does not have to deal with drunken mom, would police really leave baby there with drunken mom?
Suggestions? Advice? Thanks so much.
Wow....are all the moderators here so snarky and condescending?
by the way....there is a court order for custody and visitation and despite many police reports the court went with joint custody with mom winning primary custody despite her multiple drunken run ins with the police.
You may be in the legal field, but your morals are pretty warped here. Attacks vs helpful advice on a forum board you have voluntarily decided to view and comment on. Why exactly are you even doing it?i
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This is no justification for the nasty attacks.
Thank you for confirming my point is accurate with yet another example of snide condescending remarks aimed not at trying to help, but only to insult. It's an advice board, not an attack board.