unsure about what adoption and natural fathers rights

[Just Blue]

Was not expecting all the harshness but whatever. No mommy has not posted here or anywhere about this. As for the saying my step father came into my life when I was very young, married her had another kid and adopted me when she passed when I was 5.

I understand I'm just mommies boyfriend as far as the law is concerned. The "donor" crud, sorry, "natural" father. We plan on telling him that I am not his "natural" father around 5 or so when he will be able to understand. I didn't find out until I wss 23 and I didn't take it very well. We do not want him to go through the same

We are getting married this year.

We will be getting an adoption lawyer

I was just looking for advice about what to expect with this whole thing. What I read about step parent( which I will be) is that if the "natural" father did not do the minimum "minimus efacto" or w/e for a year before filling he had no say. Does that year start from the day we get married or the day we bought our home and began living together?

Thank you for the link I will read it.

Any other actual advice or shared experience will be appreciated.

Ill refer to facebook when I need sacarstic unhelpful remarks, thanks

This natural "mother" seems rather...fickle. Have fun with that.

 

[Just Blue]

One other thing.

I'm pretty sure this situation has been posted elsewhere very, very recently ... and then deleted.

Yup. It was here.

 

[Just Blue]

"You're welcome."

Since your on here talking about the law. I'mgoing to assume you may have some sort of legal experience. Since your trolling I'm also going to assume you failed the bar and now your stuck spending your miserable life doing 15 hours a day of research as an aide and handing of the information to an actual lawyer that is living the life you wish you had. If you don't have a bridge to go back under, your in luck, I can build you one cause I have the life I want and don't spend my free time trolling to make myself feel better

Read the TOS please...As you should have when joining.

Though I will say that of ALL the "legal sites" I have seen...THIS one is the VERY BEST. Both with Moderation and ACCURACY.