Violation of custody papers!

[kaotikdodge]

What is the name of your state? VA

My fiance's ex-wife has supervised visitations of their four year old daughter every other weekend. We have proof that this past weekend the person who is supposed to be supervising (stated in the papers) was not. The supervisor is on oxygen and bedrest and his fiance took his daughter in a car with five other kids and two adults, no car seats, no buckles and left the supervisors house. We are filing a complaint in court today, but is this grounds for her not to see her daughter until it is brought back to court?

 

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

What is the name of your state? VA

My fiance's ex-wife has supervised visitations of their four year old daughter every other weekend. We have proof that this past weekend the person who is supposed to be supervising (stated in the papers) was not. The supervisor is on oxygen and bedrest and his fiance took his daughter in a car with five other kids and two adults, no car seats, no buckles and left the supervisors house. We are filing a complaint in court today, but is this grounds for her not to see her daughter until it is brought back to court?

My response:

. . . and you're marrying into this dysfunctional family?

The above situation will be one of many, and for many years to come. You have nothing to complain about because you're making the choice of marrying a man with "baggage".

We don't assist (future) stepmothers. You have no legal standing to complain about anything.

IAAL

 

[kaotikdodge]

Well thank you for your honesty, however, I don't consider children "baggage" and my only concern is the well being of my "future stepdaugther". Im not complaining about the fact she has to see her mother, my concern is the fact she was put in danger and I just wanted to know what our rights were to avoid this from happening again.

 

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

Well thank you for your honesty, however, I don't consider children "baggage" and my only concern is the well being of my "future stepdaugther". Im not complaining about the fact she has to see her mother, my concern is the fact she was put in danger and I just wanted to know what our rights were to avoid this from happening again.

My response:

And I'm telling you there is no "we" or "our" in this equation. There never will be because YOU have no legal standing. Momma Bear can do whatever she wants. It's up to your fiance' to take the bull by the horns.

All I'm telling you is that unless you're willing to accept this "fact of life - - and of law", you'll be in for many, many years of grief.

Remember, you're NOT just marrying him. You're "marrying" Momma Bear, too - - right along with all of the dysfunctionality.

Get out while you can.

IAAL

 

[GPSPRES]

So what would "Papa Bears" rights be?

 

[Rvela]

Document this information, very detailed,
get 3 incedents documented, and file for contempt of a court order.
There is nothing wrong with a "future wife" helping out her "future husband". the way I see it, if you are doing something wrong, it doesn't matter who reports it, you are still guilty. The person reporting the offense doesn't make the crime a lesser.
Some times the passive man needs help dealing with his bipolar, personality disorder, bitter, uncontrolable ex b!tch.

 

[kaotikdodge]

Document this information, very detailed,
get 3 incedents documented, and file for contempt of a court order.
There is nothing wrong with a "future wife" helping out her "future husband". the way I see it, if you are doing something wrong, it doesn't matter who reports it, you are still guilty. The person reporting the offense doesn't make the crime a lesser.
Some times the passive man needs help dealing with his bipolar, personality disorder, bitter, uncontrolable ex b!tch.

Wow I didn't know that you knew my future husbands ex-wife. Thank you for your advice. We have been documenting these incidents and will be taking it to court. Thank you for understanding that I just want to help.

 

[Rvela]

Hey, no prob....
its my life story......
And besides, Just becuase she threw him away, doesn't mean he is damaged goods. In a few years, you guys can have your life together, with out her in it all the time.
Good Luck!

 

[BelizeBreeze]

The supervisor is on oxygen and bedrest and his fiance took his daughter in a car with five other kids and two adults, no car seats, no buckles and left the supervisors house. We are filing a complaint in court today, but is this grounds for her not to see her daughter until it is brought back to court?

O.K. and what type of complaint are you filing? Who are you filing the complaint against? What is the basis of proof that you have?

Who is the supervisor's fiance and what was the circumstance surrounding the car trip? Where was the mother in this scenario? (you forgot to mention that) And why do you even care since the judge will not even listen to you.

 

[GPSPRES]

I know this situation and the mom was with the boyfriend at the mall with 5 kids, atleast 3 not in car seats that should have been, and without the supervisor. Why does she care???? Probably concerned for the safety of the children. Seatbelts are the LAW in Virginia. And as far as a judge not caring... I have been in court and have witnessed first hand judges reactions to people who do not follow their orders (i.e., supervised visitation rights).

Do you BelizeBreeze post anything supportive or positive on these forums?