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hotchick

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What is the name of your state? arkansas. i just turned 17 & my boyfriend will be 17 in 19 days. i love him alot. his parents won't let us see each other and i want to get married. is that wrong? how do i go about it?:confused:
 


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PerfidyorFealty

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Wait a year until you are 18, hook back up with your boyfriend then and go get married.
 
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hotchick

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thanks! i'm trying to wait but i really love him. his parents are just so crazy. i don't know. i'll try to wait. we haven't broken up. we just talk when his parents don't know.
 

stealth2

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Your best bet would be to finish high school, and then both of you spend some time living as adults (note, I didn't say living together as adults) - college would be a good idea. Get some life experience before you get married - there's plenty of time for that.
 
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louiebingo

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Come on Momma tiger, hotchick is a REDNECK from arkinsaw...

Shes gotta get laid and have babies before she is 18 or she is worthless.

Ya gotta understand these backwood folks!
 
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hotchick

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ok. i am not a redneck. i am a teenager just like everyone else my age. no. i've never been laid & don't really cared to be before i get married. i believe in waiting!!!
 

stealth2

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hotchick said:
ok. i am not a redneck. i am a teenager just like everyone else my age. no. i've never been laid & don't really cared to be before i get married. i believe in waiting!!!

Then wait a little longer, experience a bit of life before you get married. I know y'all are in luv - if it's gonna last, it'll last thru a bit more time. If it's not going to - better find out before you're married with a kid or two. There's no rush to grow up.
 
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rslaght

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louiebingo?? Where you from? Obviously where ever you are from they have not taught you manners or education. I don't think I have seen an educated post from you yet. You seem backwards yourself, you must speak from experience.
 

HomeGuru

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rslaght said:
louiebingo?? Where you from? Obviously where ever you are from they have not taught you manners or education. I don't think I have seen an educated post from you yet. You seem backwards yourself, you must speak from experience.

**A: patooiedingo is the clone of happy roach the forum troll that has been kicked off this website numerous times.
He has no manners or education. It's obvious.
 
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Grandma B

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HomeGuru said:
rslaght said:
louiebingo?? Where you from? Obviously where ever you are from they have not taught you manners or education. I don't think I have seen an educated post from you yet. You seem backwards yourself, you must speak from experience.

**A: patooiedingo is the clone of happy roach the forum troll that has been kicked off this website numerous times.
He has no manners or education. It's obvious.

BINGOOOOO!!!
 

djohnson

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Listen everyone of us has been that age and remember thinking we knew everything and the parents just didn't understand. You will look back one day and see that they did. Waiting a year may seem like an eternity to you now but when your flipping burgers at burger king to buy diapers for your kids because its the only job you could get, a year will seem so much different because it can change the rest of your life. There is reason you are not legally allowed to get married at your age without parental consent. It usually doesn't work and a person that age isn't mature enough to make that kind of decision. 18 is really stretching it, truth be known. You need to be able to live with yourself, for yourself, and by yourself, before you can life with some one, and for someone. Your whole life will change and you need to know you can count on you alone so you don't become one of those totally dependant women that can't make it on their own. It doesn't seem like much now but it will. Ask any of the people in here and the percentages will surprise but not anyone thats past that stage of life.
 
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hotchick

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Thanks! I'm feeling better about everything. I've prayed & prayed & whatever happens will be for the best.
 

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