What are my options?

[brisgirl825]

I didn't get arrested for hitting her. I said the cops were called but I didn't hit her when they were called. The couple times I (I didn't hit her) I spat in her face once, and she called b/c I said I was going to hit her. And once I grabbed her neck and once I threw something and made her lips bleed. But I'm going to say she fell and hurt herself.

My daughter won't be such pansies like her kids are. They dont play sports, they are too attached to their mom, it's sickening. And they are just crybabies. My girl won't be like that b/c I don want her raising her. Which is why I am seeking advice!! I haven't hit her kids, she thinks I'm verbally abusive alot to them, and I am man enough to admit at times I have been. But she won't let me teach them how to be a man. My kid won't be like that.

I dont think I will need a lawyer, she doesn't have one. She's been the stay at home mom for awhile w/ all 3 kids and so she has no money I know and I have only given her $20 for grocery money this week alone. So I make sure she can't get any money. And her parents don't have much and I dont think they can help her out either. I know I can get a court appointed lawyer, but what are her real chances.

We all know that when we get to court the only kid who matters in this case is my daughter, the other 2 aren't mine and aren't involved in this case. I am an active parent to her, and I love her and she loves me. I stayed home with her for awhile when she was little while my wife was doing her "nursing" job, but I talked her into leaving so I could work. and now I am happy b/c I can controll the money I make b/c I get paid cash under the table. So when the judge hears from her she wants to move 3 states away to live with her parents, or get "emotional support" as she told me for her and her kids, and I cry aboutlosing my girl, the judge won't let her leave. Well she can leave but not w/ my girl. I am thinking that is the law. And several of you same people say this all the time to others in here. That the judge don't like to let people move w/ the kids and take them from the father, that they will have a fight on their hands. But w/ me it's different????

I love controlling men such as yourself. I find that the weakness and pansiness that you despise in her young children also resides in your own personality. That's why you beat up on women and children and not another man, you'd get your a$$ kicked! You're quite funny to watch.

And she doesn't have a fight on her hands, you have made it easy to make a case for abuse.

Sarah

 

[stealth2]

Yep, it's different. 'Cause every situation is. And most of the fathers here don't admit to being a$$holes. Not every move is barred - quite a few are allowed. And I'm betting she has a much better chance than you think she does.

 

[seeingheragain]

Well I think if she has no lawyer then she doens't have a chance. I'm not staying she has to stay with me, I'm saying she can't leave w/ my girl.
Also no one has answered me about can she bring her "journal" of events and pics into court. And what will happen the first family court thing? I got a letter from a Child Gaurdian? whatever that is.

 

[LdiJ]

I dont think I should go to court when SHE wants me to. I mean I should have a say in that. She filed these papers she should deal with it all, right?
I dont have remorse for anything I've ever done. I would do it again, I'm a person who may make mistakes but they make me who I am. Now, she has pictures of holes in the walls I punched, and she has pictures of things I've broken in rage. And I know she's keeping a diary of things I say to her and her boys somewhere but I can't find it. If I do I will burn it. Will she use that in court. I am vergally abusive to her and her boys at times. I know the oldest son has emotional issues already.

dude...you are TOAST...Either grow up now or she is not only going to get permission to move out of state....but you are going to get nothing but supervised visitation....and maybe not even that. There is nothing STUPIDER than not showing up for court.

 

[stealth2]

The Law Guardian is going to represent your daughter's best interests. So s/he will talk to you and Mom, see how the each of you interact with the child, investigate your respective backgrounds, probably listen to what your wife has to say about your behavior (and possibly read the journal she's kept - and look at the photos), talk to neighbors, etc. You may well find yourself in a pretty deep hole.

As for the journal - that will be up to the judge. It's a toss-up whether she'll be able to use it in court - but don't expect that she only has one copy. I had several, and kept them in different places.

 

[casa]

I love controlling men such as yourself. I find that the weakness and pansiness that you despise in her young children also resides in your own personality. That's why you beat up on women and children and not another man, you'd get your a$$ kicked! You're quite funny to watch.

And she doesn't have a fight on her hands, you have made it easy to make a case for abuse.

Sarah

What you've said speaks volumes about what you haven't said-

Give me your state & I'll give more 'opinion'.

FYI~ Move-Away laws are for the "Best interest of the CHILDREN".........bullying is still bullying- no matter the portrayal Judges aren't judges for no reason at all~

Suck it up. Pay the piper~ And, *IF* you REALLY care.......think about your children in this.

 

[casa]

dude...you are TOAST...Either grow up now or she is not only going to get permission to move out of state....but you are going to get nothing but supervised visitation....and maybe not even that. There is nothing STUPIDER than not showing up for court.

Along the same lines as my thought~

 

[stealth2]

I divorce in NY w/2 kids. And I was allowed to move to a different state.

 

[LdiJ]

I didn't get arrested for hitting her. I said the cops were called but I didn't hit her when they were called. The couple times I (I didn't hit her) I spat in her face once, and she called b/c I said I was going to hit her. And once I grabbed her neck and once I threw something and made her lips bleed. But I'm going to say she fell and hurt herself.

My daughter won't be such pansies like her kids are. They dont play sports, they are too attached to their mom, it's sickening. And they are just crybabies. My girl won't be like that b/c I don want her raising her. Which is why I am seeking advice!! I haven't hit her kids, she thinks I'm verbally abusive alot to them, and I am man enough to admit at times I have been. But she won't let me teach them how to be a man. My kid won't be like that.

I dont think I will need a lawyer, she doesn't have one. She's been the stay at home mom for awhile w/ all 3 kids and so she has no money I know and I have only given her $20 for grocery money this week alone. So I make sure she can't get any money. And her parents don't have much and I dont think they can help her out either. I know I can get a court appointed lawyer, but what are her real chances.

We all know that when we get to court the only kid who matters in this case is my daughter, the other 2 aren't mine and aren't involved in this case. I am an active parent to her, and I love her and she loves me. I stayed home with her for awhile when she was little while my wife was doing her "nursing" job, but I talked her into leaving so I could work. and now I am happy b/c I can controll the money I make b/c I get paid cash under the table. So when the judge hears from her she wants to move 3 states away to live with her parents, or get "emotional support" as she told me for her and her kids, and I cry aboutlosing my girl, the judge won't let her leave. Well she can leave but not w/ my girl. I am thinking that is the law. And several of you same people say this all the time to others in here. That the judge don't like to let people move w/ the kids and take them from the father, that they will have a fight on their hands. But w/ me it's different????

You are so unbelieveably STUPID I can't believe it. People like you are the reason why good dads have such a rough time in court. I wish nobody here had even answered you.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Stop playing games.

 

[seeingheragain]

Why do you keep saying stop playing a game. I am not. I have a court date and she wants to leave w/ my girl. NO game.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Why do you keep saying stop playing a game. I am not. I have a court date and she wants to leave w/ my girl. NO game.

Then when that court date comes just go to a bar, and get drunk, tell them all about her and how unfair she is to you because she does't like your abuse. Tell the Law Guardian to buzz off, then go back to your buddies and tell them how smart you are.

 

[brisgirl825]

What you've said speaks volumes about what you haven't said-
Give me your state & I'll give more 'opinion'.

FYI~ Move-Away laws are for the "Best interest of the CHILDREN".........bullying is still bullying- no matter the portrayal Judges aren't judges for no reason at all~

Suck it up. Pay the piper~ And, *IF* you REALLY care.......think about your children in this.

What do you mean? Do you think that I am wrong? Most people are abusive b/c of their own weaknesses. However, if you feel that what I said has no merit, I'll gladly hear what you have to say about it.

Sarah

 

[AHA]

OP, get a life and stop trolling on sites for people with true stories.
I don't believe a single word of yours.
The only thing I want to know is, if you don't have anything else to do but type up nonsense stories on the internet, WHY WHY make yourself look like a complete @ss????? I thought I had low self esteem occasionally, but I'm a frickin rock star compared to your caracter in your bogus story.

 

[BL]

I didn't get arrested for hitting her. I said the cops were called but I didn't hit her when they were called. The couple times I (I didn't hit her) I spat in her face once, and she called b/c I said I was going to hit her. And once I grabbed her neck and once I threw something and made her lips bleed. But I'm going to say she fell and hurt herself.

My daughter won't be such pansies like her kids are. They dont play sports, they are too attached to their mom, it's sickening. And they are just crybabies. My girl won't be like that b/c I don want her raising her. Which is why I am seeking advice!! I haven't hit her kids, she thinks I'm verbally abusive alot to them, and I am man enough to admit at times I have been. But she won't let me teach them how to be a man. My kid won't be like that.

I dont think I will need a lawyer, she doesn't have one. She's been the stay at home mom for awhile w/ all 3 kids and so she has no money I know and I have only given her $20 for grocery money this week alone. So I make sure she can't get any money. And her parents don't have much and I dont think they can help her out either. I know I can get a court appointed lawyer, but what are her real chances.

We all know that when we get to court the only kid who matters in this case is my daughter, the other 2 aren't mine and aren't involved in this case. I am an active parent to her, and I love her and she loves me. I stayed home with her for awhile when she was little while my wife was doing her "nursing" job, but I talked her into leaving so I could work. and now I am happy b/c I can controll the money I make b/c I get paid cash under the table. So when the judge hears from her she wants to move 3 states away to live with her parents, or get "emotional support" as she told me for her and her kids, and I cry aboutlosing my girl, the judge won't let her leave. Well she can leave but not w/ my girl. I am thinking that is the law. And several of you same people say this all the time to others in here. That the judge don't like to let people move w/ the kids and take them from the father, that they will have a fight on their hands. But w/ me it's different????

I gave you good advice @@@ hole . You are going to get chewed up alive and you deserve it , sorry I ever gave you advice . If I knew who you are I'd call CPS .

FY dum@ss info. She will be appointed a Free lawyer if she qualifies . And if you decide to show in Court I hope you get an older Male sitting judge . He will tear you a new one .