nextwife said:Neither of you should be taking this child "away" from their other parent. Why not work out a JOINT legal/physical custody agreement to file so this child retains the right to have BOTH parents in his everyday life? Why must it always be all or nothing? You both made this child you should both be entitled to full involvement in raising him.
valarie1979 said:Fact of paternity, I am the mother, LMAO, trying to prove I am not will be difficult, and then telling him to establish paternity would be stupied since they are both his and have never questioned neithier of them, if he did, well then he can take me to court, and look stupied in the end. I have thought about saying he isnt the father but then it would be proved he was. So that wouldnt work. Waste of money and court time . In this case Paternity doesnt apply to me, since I am the mother paying child support. I gave birth to the babies and I can prove it. Stretch marks and all!
valarie1979 said:Fact of paternity, I am the mother, LMAO, trying to prove I am not will be difficult, and then telling him to establish paternity would be stupied since they are both his and have never questioned neithier of them, if he did, well then he can take me to court, and look stupied in the end. I have thought about saying he isnt the father but then it would be proved he was. So that wouldnt work. Waste of money and court time . In this case Paternity doesnt apply to me, since I am the mother paying child support. I gave birth to the babies and I can prove it. Stretch marks and all!
Kevmar44 said:I have read over & over again about how it is in the child's best interest to have both birth parents in their lives, but when possible endangerment is in the picture I can NOT agree! This woman feels her son's life may be in danger. She's lived with this man & knows. I don't doubt her. She shouldn't just have to hand over the child to him because his DNA happens to match! At what point does she take his threats seriously? Before or AFTER the child has been harmed? Right now my situation is with my ex & the mental freak that he is married to. She is unstable & my ex refuses to see that there is anything wrong with her but yet I have to encourage my son to have a good time while his is there because he is his biological father! It's not that I don't want my son to know & love his dad, it's that I don't want him to know & love the dad he is right now. It wasn't always this way. For 3+ yrs I encouraged my ex to be the best father he could be & he was...until this freak came in the picture. Not he puts my son in harms way every time he has to go there because no one knows when this freak is going to snap & my ex husband just sits back & lets it happen! I want to know what we do with all the kids that are emotional train wrecks when they grow up because someone thought it was in their best interest to interact with an incompetent parent? My son has a "real" father with his step Dad. He is a positive roll-model and a great example of a husband AND a parent that my son will learn more from than his "biological" dad. Unless of course I want my son to grow up to be a liar, a thief, a cheat, a lazy slob & someone who can't be counted on to keep their word...then his father is the best teacher for that. My husband & I provide my son with unconditional love and support but it will NEVER take away the hurt his father has caused him with his behavior & actions towards him since he met this freak. I don't want my son to ever think his current behavior is acceptable. And no one will be able to convince me that sending my son to his house is in his best interest. Sorry.
valarie1979 said:Fact of paternity, I am the mother, LMAO, trying to prove I am not will be difficult, and then telling him to establish paternity would be stupied since they are both his and have never questioned neithier of them, if he did, well then he can take me to court, and look stupied in the end. I have thought about saying he isnt the father but then it would be proved he was. So that wouldnt work. Waste of money and court time . In this case Paternity doesnt apply to me, since I am the mother paying child support. I gave birth to the babies and I can prove it. Stretch marks and all!
VeronicaGia said:What threats? She said he threatens to take the child, he doesn't threaten the child! At this point, she's threatening to take the child!
Please read a little more carefully.
missleedol said:I am NOT trying to take him from his father!! He needs his father too! I just want to make sure that my son is secure and safe living with me.