who cares about the kids

[jimd33]

What is the name of your state?ga i live.so here i am writing to whoever.ive been thru hell my kids are all torn up but who cares the world revolves around money now call me a liar if you want reason for saying is my ex inlaws have money and they have custody of my kids after a three year battle between them me and my ex which is their daughter and they stil demand childsupport from me now if it was me i would not care about the money just as long as i have my kids . so if they were there for the kids then why would they be worried about money?they call themselfs christians but any christian knows that the right way would be to help keep the families together so much less accuse the dad of molesting his little girl just to cost him money and hopefully hurt his chances in court there are many other things that has been done to break my wallet and stop me from trying to fight in court so i give up and the hell with a so called people who say they care about the kids what they really care about is money nothing more

 

[stealth2]

And your question is...........?

 

[AHA]

Unfortunately many many kids are every day having to pay the price for parents that can't be civil with each other for the sake of the kids they created together. So much for being adults!

 

[jimd33]

since when does a post have to be a ?

And your question is...........?

how about that one smartie pants

 

[stealth2]

Hmmmmm let's see..... The site isn't FreeEditorials.com. It's not FreeOpinions.com. Or FreeVenting.com. Maybe that Advice part of the site name indicates that questions are usually asked. But since you didn't like the question I originally asked, I'll happily ask another!!! Do you suppose you might consider writing coherent sentences with normal punctuation like they taught you in school? So, like, people could actually understand what you're saying?

 

[AHA]

how about that one smartie pants

We already know that many parents are too stupid and selfish to wipe their own a**es, much less raise kids, so what's your point with the post?
If parents had to go through extensive tests to be eligible to have kids, then thousand of kids wouldn't be growing up in hellish circumstances and being used for cash by their own flesh and blood parents. I read post from parents like that EVERY day on this board only, so eventhough your revelation is true, it still is, unfortunately, an old and well known one.

 

[VeronicaGia]

What is the name of your state?ga i live.so here i am writing to whoever.ive been thru hell my kids are all torn up but who cares the world revolves around money now call me a liar if you want reason for saying is my ex inlaws have money and they have custody of my kids after a three year battle between them me and my ex which is their daughter and they stil demand childsupport from me now if it was me i would not care about the money just as long as i have my kids . so if they were there for the kids then why would they be worried about money?they call themselfs christians but any christian knows that the right way would be to help keep the families together so much less accuse the dad of molesting his little girl just to cost him money and hopefully hurt his chances in court there are many other things that has been done to break my wallet and stop me from trying to fight in court so i give up and the hell with a so called people who say they care about the kids what they really care about is money nothing more

You are correct. Welcome to the harsh reality of family law.

 

[prettyredhead]

Child molestation is not a civil matter. May be a lie, may not be. MANY men have done this to their own child. Maybe there is good reason to keep you away. Maybe not.
POint is, that when you have a child, regardless of how many millions you have, you pay for their needs. Penniless or millionaire. Do you realize that the grandparents now must give up the other half of their lives raising a child, because their daughter isnt capable, and neither are you?>? Do you understand what it must be like to raise your kids, and have another dropped on your lap at age 45? If they dont, the child could be in danger. I hate people who wipe their adult kids asses , but how can they live with themselves knowing their grandchild is in harm? You people make me very angry. Why could you not be good when the kid was born? Why could you not be responsible then? It isnt a puppy yu can take back. Jeeeeeez.
Stay away, and you are responsible to PAY CHILD SUPPORT that doesnt "go away" like the rest of your problems will if you ignore them long enough.

 

[jimd33]

but the question was who cares about the kids dumbasses not any of u not the lawer or the judge if there wasnt any child support no one would wont the kids
i knew when i came in here to talk i would get smart ass answers
so u see who really cares

 

[AHA]

The bottom line is, you put kids into the world, it's your job to do the very best for them, it's not a job for parents to leave to others.

 

[jimd33]

ok here you go im just a hard working man who has done drywall for 18 years making 30 plus thousand a year .waited till i was 25 to marry and start a family. my ex wanted to party rather than have a family .so she leaves the kids with her mom all the time. but i couldnt prove nothing so when we get a divorce her mom pays for her attorney. then when the divorce was final the mom takes my ex to court. using the same evidents that i used in ga against her in sc. then i went for the custody too. then it became a 3 way battle the gardian ad litem found in my favor 3 times.i was paying child support in the amount of 140 weekly plus medical expenses .and the grand parents wouldnt take the kids to a doctor where my insurance would cover them so i also paid the doctor visits too.every which way i turn there was a road block more money that i barely had to spare . the child molestation thing well after seeing the syco doc was found to be uncalled for . but i still had to pay for every visit thet me and my little girl attended.when people have to lie to get what they want in the court of law there is something bad wrong . and to tell you the truth i believe that i will wait on a real judge his name is god . still not the whole story but lets see what all you can say about it anyways. my ? is do you people like living in a man judged world . where i believe that if the gov would stop allowing so much child support to be paid to the party that leaves then there would be less broken homes.