I'm writing in as a bio-mom. I just want to let some people out there know that there are ex's that are not "psycho".
About a year ago, my 36-year old husband and I divorced. In the span of a year (and even prior to the divorce) I've watched my ex cram woman after woman down my 7-yr old's throat. He recently married a 21-yr old and didn't even invite my son to the wedding.
Up until this point, my ex had been pretty good about paying child support and keeping up with his visitation (with a little supervision on my part). After she came into the picture however, he's become increasingly antagonistic (to the point of demanding that I contact him ONLY through email), missing his child support payments, and cancelling visitation all the time. My son doesn't have a bed to sleep in when he visits (I guess he doesn't warrant one) and is told repeatedly by the step that my son is going to wind up in jail or hell for his behavior (which is very strange, since everyone I come across EXCEPT HER AND MY EX have commented on what a well-mannered child he is). Not to mention the fact that she had the nerve to have a friend call my house and threaten me (while she was talking in the background).
I personally could care less that my ex is remarried - however, I do have serious problems with the behavior of the person he chose and the way he is recently acting. All I want is a father for my child and a stepmother that will be responsible with him while I'm not present. Too much to ask???