jslopez711
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Here is a little jingle for you guys. I cought myself before I fell deeply into the abyss that she usually sends me into. Enjoy the reading.
I had a verbal agreement to switch with my ex, she agreed to it, but has gone back after I had made loads of plans because her husband wants to take my son to a baseball game. That in itself is not bad, but her husband loves to play these dumb power games all the time, the cruddy thing is that there is nothing that can be done about this. Always get everything in writing, and even if you do, it may not matter for a long time, or can it?
Never mind the my son and I go to 2 or 3 baseball games per month during the season. So it's not that he doesn't get to go to Astros games.
SHE WRITES
I can't switch that weekend(APRIL 8th) with you, so please pick a different one. I told John last night and he was upset w/me b/c he'd already bought Astros tickets for Nxxxxx to go see Clemens pitch his first game. It was supposed to be a surprise. I'm sorry. I can switch the 4th one(April 21th), so you'd still get him 2 weekends in a row. Write back. If I don't hear from you, I'll call today.
I WRITE
Mxxxx,
I had promised Nxxxx to take him to see his cousins in Beaumont and to the hockey game. I too already have the tickets with the prior agreement that we had and have made arrangement with my family for this. We have made arrangements with a lot of people to see Nxxxxx that weekend. Ask him take Nxxxxx some other time please.
J.
SHE REPLIES
I can't. the tickets were $60 and we don't have money to throw away like you do.
Please try not to make plans on the weekends that you know I have him. That's not fair to him!!! My time is limited with him b/c of work, so please don't take the little time on the weekends that I have with him.
I REPLY
I told you about this a month ago, I remember clearly. You said yes, then I made plans based on your word. I don't take any weekends away from you, we are TRADING. Don't act that way. It's not fair that you decide to flake out in the last minute. I'll pay you the $30.00 for Nickolas ticket if it's about the money. This is family we are seeing and not a game. I urge you to reconsider.
SHE REPLIES (THIS IS WERE SHE LOOSES HER CHEMICAL BALANCE)
He can see his family the other weekend in April. I did not flake out. If my husband wants to be nice to Nxxxxx and take him to his favorite player's game and surprise him on a weekend that he knows we'll have him, I don't see why that's a problem. Stop being mean.
SHE REPLIES AGAIN
Don't be dramatic. It was almost two weeks ago, not over a month.
I REPLY
No, I understand that John wants to take Nxxxx to the game, that is not what I'm saying. What I'm telling you is that I have a lot of family coming from all over SAT/Dallas and El Paso to meet there that weekend. We all made plans for the 8th because you and I had already agreed on the trade, as I recall correctly you said as long it did not interfere with the 3 day weekend you had in April.
So, based on our agreement, I mobilized everyone for the weekend of the 8th. Now you tell me you don't want to do it!!! come on!!! I have even offered to pay for Nxxxxx' value of the ticket. You can see Clemens again (5 days later). He pitches every 5 days all season. I can't get my family together every 5 days. I think that is fair. I'm sure john can find someone to give that ticket to, a free ticket none the less.
SHE REPLIES
I don't appreciate that you planned an event on a weekend that I normally would have had Nxxxxx. I didn't know about John's plans for the game. I didn't know about your plans. I'm sorry. Don't put this off on me.
I REPLY
You are just trying to turn it around like always. Are you going to do this or not?
SHE REPLIES
You just LOVE to play the victim, when you cause all these problems in the first place. So save it.
Nxxxxx needs to go to the game with us. I can't drive around to pick up someone to use our tickets.
I am willing to have you pick him up still, but on Saturday morning or up until noon, whatever is easier. Would that be okay?
Stop being difficult, b/c you're not getting your way. Are you in Jr High?
I REPLY
I'm not playing victim, you went back on your word. I made plans based on our agreement and you didn't care. That's fine.
Saturday I will already be in out of town and we were scheduled to come back Saturday night. We were going to leave Friday because I was taking the day off. I can't take him under those conditions, there is simply no time. I'm not being difficult, you are the one that is being an *******. You know you agreed a long time ago. Like I said, I was willing to pay for Nxxxxx' ticket but I think I see what is REALLY going on here and it's sad. I'm tired of dealing with you anymore. Enjoy the game.
Don't change your mind about the weekend of April 22nd.
Here is a little jingle for you guys. I cought myself before I fell deeply into the abyss that she usually sends me into. Enjoy the reading.
I had a verbal agreement to switch with my ex, she agreed to it, but has gone back after I had made loads of plans because her husband wants to take my son to a baseball game. That in itself is not bad, but her husband loves to play these dumb power games all the time, the cruddy thing is that there is nothing that can be done about this. Always get everything in writing, and even if you do, it may not matter for a long time, or can it?
Never mind the my son and I go to 2 or 3 baseball games per month during the season. So it's not that he doesn't get to go to Astros games.
SHE WRITES
I can't switch that weekend(APRIL 8th) with you, so please pick a different one. I told John last night and he was upset w/me b/c he'd already bought Astros tickets for Nxxxxx to go see Clemens pitch his first game. It was supposed to be a surprise. I'm sorry. I can switch the 4th one(April 21th), so you'd still get him 2 weekends in a row. Write back. If I don't hear from you, I'll call today.
I WRITE
Mxxxx,
I had promised Nxxxx to take him to see his cousins in Beaumont and to the hockey game. I too already have the tickets with the prior agreement that we had and have made arrangement with my family for this. We have made arrangements with a lot of people to see Nxxxxx that weekend. Ask him take Nxxxxx some other time please.
J.
SHE REPLIES
I can't. the tickets were $60 and we don't have money to throw away like you do.
Please try not to make plans on the weekends that you know I have him. That's not fair to him!!! My time is limited with him b/c of work, so please don't take the little time on the weekends that I have with him.
I REPLY
I told you about this a month ago, I remember clearly. You said yes, then I made plans based on your word. I don't take any weekends away from you, we are TRADING. Don't act that way. It's not fair that you decide to flake out in the last minute. I'll pay you the $30.00 for Nickolas ticket if it's about the money. This is family we are seeing and not a game. I urge you to reconsider.
SHE REPLIES (THIS IS WERE SHE LOOSES HER CHEMICAL BALANCE)
He can see his family the other weekend in April. I did not flake out. If my husband wants to be nice to Nxxxxx and take him to his favorite player's game and surprise him on a weekend that he knows we'll have him, I don't see why that's a problem. Stop being mean.
SHE REPLIES AGAIN
Don't be dramatic. It was almost two weeks ago, not over a month.
I REPLY
No, I understand that John wants to take Nxxxx to the game, that is not what I'm saying. What I'm telling you is that I have a lot of family coming from all over SAT/Dallas and El Paso to meet there that weekend. We all made plans for the 8th because you and I had already agreed on the trade, as I recall correctly you said as long it did not interfere with the 3 day weekend you had in April.
So, based on our agreement, I mobilized everyone for the weekend of the 8th. Now you tell me you don't want to do it!!! come on!!! I have even offered to pay for Nxxxxx' value of the ticket. You can see Clemens again (5 days later). He pitches every 5 days all season. I can't get my family together every 5 days. I think that is fair. I'm sure john can find someone to give that ticket to, a free ticket none the less.
SHE REPLIES
I don't appreciate that you planned an event on a weekend that I normally would have had Nxxxxx. I didn't know about John's plans for the game. I didn't know about your plans. I'm sorry. Don't put this off on me.
I REPLY
You are just trying to turn it around like always. Are you going to do this or not?
SHE REPLIES
You just LOVE to play the victim, when you cause all these problems in the first place. So save it.
Nxxxxx needs to go to the game with us. I can't drive around to pick up someone to use our tickets.
I am willing to have you pick him up still, but on Saturday morning or up until noon, whatever is easier. Would that be okay?
Stop being difficult, b/c you're not getting your way. Are you in Jr High?
I REPLY
I'm not playing victim, you went back on your word. I made plans based on our agreement and you didn't care. That's fine.
Saturday I will already be in out of town and we were scheduled to come back Saturday night. We were going to leave Friday because I was taking the day off. I can't take him under those conditions, there is simply no time. I'm not being difficult, you are the one that is being an *******. You know you agreed a long time ago. Like I said, I was willing to pay for Nxxxxx' ticket but I think I see what is REALLY going on here and it's sad. I'm tired of dealing with you anymore. Enjoy the game.
Don't change your mind about the weekend of April 22nd.