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What is the name of your state? Missouri
Why is it always the girlfiends or the step moms on here asking for advice on how to get their boyfirends or new husbands out of paying child supourt? what is wrong with this picture
 


Ambr

Senior Member
The FEMALE in me wants to say......

because they are smarter and know how to work a computer???? :D


Now don't start hollering.....that was suppose to be a FUNNY!!!
 
jennifer6219 said:
What is the name of your state? Missouri
Why is it always the girlfiends or the step moms on here asking for advice on how to get their boyfirends or new husbands out of paying child supourt? what is wrong with this picture


Umm....could it be because the boyfriend/husband is actually out WORKING to pay their child support. My God. Of all things! :eek:
 

MandyD

Member
StepmomsAreBest said:
Umm....could it be because the boyfriend/husband is actually out WORKING to pay their child support. My God. Of all things! :eek:

Umm, I didn't realize the internet held banker's hours.

Good one Ambr. :)
 
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chatkat

Member
Step mom here too

I don't try to figure out a way to keep my husband from paying child support. I try to figure out a way to stop a jealous ex wife from screwing him and me both. My husband was in the arrears when we met because he had been out of work for medical reasons for 3 months. We got a loan and paid it up to date so that he wouldn't have arrears anymore. His child support comes right out of his check, along with the medical coverage on the kids. Mom lives on welfare and takes in foster kids for her support. His ex had been very successful in alienating him from his children for two years and he was ready to throw in the towel. I gave him the support he needed to get back into court and gain appropriate visitation for a parent who lives two thousand mile away from his children. When he finally got to see his kids they called him by his first name and said they had a new dad now (mom's b/f) and that mom said he was their old dad. Now we see the kids on a regular basis and they call him dad. We have a long way to go but all my husband can do is talk to his kids regularly and see them as much as possible. Were does step mom come in? Usually the men are so drained by the ex, that they need another women to support them in what they truley want. A women who is not telling them they are loosers and that they should stay away from their children. I have seen with my own eyes that although in the beginning I had to do a lot of the leg work and reminding my husband to press on, now he does it all on his own. His ex won't talk to him anymore cause she is ticked off that he won't put up with her mess. (This is a Wonderful thing!!) He and his children have bonded now and he maintains the relationship on his own now with little assistance from me.
So I say more power to step mom's who are working towards building relationships between their husbands and the children.

Sorry for rambling.
Chat
 
i give kudos to the ncp who want to see and support their children. i have been the child and now the cp in this situation except my ex wants nothing to do with our child only sees our son when i hunt him down and my dad was to busy partying except i have the step mom who tries to make my dad out to be the good guy and my mom the one who kept me away. shes thinks im stupid i remember when i was a child and my dad was no where and mom always suportive. so to those who try keep up the good work don't lose hope never loose face cause your kids will grow up and remember who did what and who didn't!

good luck to us all!!!!! :p
 

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