Mmurav2019
New member
Michigan.
I was hired in April of 2018 as a Human Resource Generalist at a Automotive Supplier. In September 2018 I started dating an Engineer that worked for the same company, but at a different facility. It should be known that my company does not have a policy against dating, nor am I in anyway responsible for her job. I work in a different facility.
It should also be known that we are a gay couple. After about a month or so we decided that we needed to be professional and let our bosses know the situation and neither seemed to have any issue with it since there was no policy and we were in different facilities.
After that is where things went down hill for me. My boss became less and less communicative, she didn’t answer my phone calls, emails weren’t being returned in a normal amount of time, I would go to the other facility to try to talk and she was very dismissive.
In October I had a mid year review and it was actually a decent review. About two weeks later I had a meeting with the general manager regarding things that were in the review that was supposed to have been put into place right then and had not. And about the issues with response time and stuff like that. Also should mention I have never been written up for anything or reprimanded. No PIP’s or anything.
Since then it’s been zero communication, my emails will get responded to sometimes days later and she is still very dismissive like she doesn’t want me in her office (boss).
We have a shared calendar, last week I went to see if she was available since she wasn’t answering my calls and noticed she had a interview for a HR Generalist. Then noticed that there was an offer letter for him for my position with a start date of 2/25/19.
I feel like this is all because I am gay since my performance isn’t an issue.
Thoughts?
I was hired in April of 2018 as a Human Resource Generalist at a Automotive Supplier. In September 2018 I started dating an Engineer that worked for the same company, but at a different facility. It should be known that my company does not have a policy against dating, nor am I in anyway responsible for her job. I work in a different facility.
It should also be known that we are a gay couple. After about a month or so we decided that we needed to be professional and let our bosses know the situation and neither seemed to have any issue with it since there was no policy and we were in different facilities.
After that is where things went down hill for me. My boss became less and less communicative, she didn’t answer my phone calls, emails weren’t being returned in a normal amount of time, I would go to the other facility to try to talk and she was very dismissive.
In October I had a mid year review and it was actually a decent review. About two weeks later I had a meeting with the general manager regarding things that were in the review that was supposed to have been put into place right then and had not. And about the issues with response time and stuff like that. Also should mention I have never been written up for anything or reprimanded. No PIP’s or anything.
Since then it’s been zero communication, my emails will get responded to sometimes days later and she is still very dismissive like she doesn’t want me in her office (boss).
We have a shared calendar, last week I went to see if she was available since she wasn’t answering my calls and noticed she had a interview for a HR Generalist. Then noticed that there was an offer letter for him for my position with a start date of 2/25/19.
I feel like this is all because I am gay since my performance isn’t an issue.
Thoughts?