I have VA Mortgage on Property not in my name

[justalayman]

here's the deal:


apparently you do not actually have any idea what is going on, how you got into the situation you are in, and due to that, how to get out of it.


Due to that, it is very difficult to help you. You obviously are not capable of handling this yourself. Either hire a lawyer to review everything and tell you what is going on or live with the problems you have.


and one thing I have never read through this entire thing is:

how did your parents hold title to the home. If it was not tenants in common, your entire scenario is thrown off course.

another problem that appears to be a problem:

your father's estate was never probated. That can be a huge problem in your situation yet you don't seem to care a lick about it.

 

[Proserpina]

Ok, it was a simple statement, I wasn't asking could I sue due to having a stroke, merely making a simple statement which somehow diverted everyone away from the questions at hand, how to best proceed. Everything becomes convoluted, diverted or you are viciously attacked why?

Here's the thing. You brought up the issue, and though you may not like it, it often goes to credibility. In other words, if a poster is running free with exaggerations or embellishments it makes the volunteers wonder what else is being exaggerated. Y'know?

And please - viciously attacked? Hardly.

 

[imjustsayin]

For some reason the executor, also an heir is delaying the transfer, she has already given everything else to everyone, she just refuses to sign it over to me. Im going to a conference next week with her attorney to ask them to show cause, I have a claim against estate for more than the value of house, but they keep trying to add conditions, Like I wont sue my neice for her handling of the estate. I also petitioned the court for accounting, because she has refused to give any details of how money was spent, after she robbed my house while I was gone.

I think she believes that if she waits long enough, and makes it a hassle big enough, I will die ( I had a stroke last year because of this) or I will give up. Maybe somehow she thinks she can take the propert'sy equity I have built away from my wife and son, somehow if I die!

Let me see if I can help without reading your other threads.

Your issues are not about stroke related to stress nor the difficulty in obtaining a VA back mortgage.

It seems your problem is Executor’s delay (which you believe to be intentional). Probate Court is a long process. The deed must go through Probate Court, will be signed over to the Executor who then signs it over to you.

In my county and state there is a web page for Probate Court where you can do a Case Search. If you have this ability, see if the case is still active. If you have a copy of the will which shows you are a beneficiary of the estate, you might take that with you and proper identification to the Probate Court where the estate is being processed. Ask the clerk to speak to a magistrate and explain your case.

Probate might be completed within a couple of years. A wrong executor or administrator can drag out the probate of real estate, accounts and other assets for as much as 10 years. If the executor of the estate is not performing their job well or proves to be untrustworthy, family members can petition to remove the executor at any time during the proceedings.

Check out the Laws and Rules of your state for the executor. There are certain procedures they must follow. One is to file a request to be the Executor, state this approved appointment to all beneficiaries, file the will with a list of assets with Probate Court and provide beneficiaries periodic written financial reports. Given that, you may petition the court to have your niece removed.

Also note the Executor’s main duty to the deceased is to protect their assets, pay all debts, taxes and settle any other accounts as well as distribute assets according to the Will.

Good luck with your meeting tomorrow.

btw, there is much evidence based research suggesting stoke can be caused by stress.
According to Journal of Neurology, Neurosurgery and Psychiatry, published week of August 30, 2012, in the Living with chronic stress increased stroke risk almost four-fold. Stress is a well-recognized risk factor for heart attack, but the study is among the first to suggest a direct impact on stroke

 

[justalayman]

imjustsayin;3226648 Let me see if I can help without reading your other threads.

I see, a budding comedian.

It seems your problem is Executor’s delay (which you believe to be intentional). Probate Court is a long process. The deed must go through Probate Court, will be signed over to the Executor who then signs it over to you.

boy, that helps...um...well...

it doesn't help anything, but also incorrect in it's description of the process as well. Nothing is "signed over to the executor". but let's say it was; just who is doing this signing over to the executor?

The executor is the authorized representative of the decedents estate and as such, "stands in place" of the decedent and as such, there is no need to "sign over" anything to the executor.

In my county and state there is a web page for Probate Court where you can do a Case Search. If you have this ability, see if the case is still active. If you have a copy of the will which shows you are a beneficiary of the estate, you might take that with you and proper identification to the Probate Court where the estate is being processed. Ask the clerk to speak to a magistrate and explain your case.

would you take the time to read the guys posts so you have a clue of what he has done.

additionally; the will, the only will that matters, has already been filed with the probate court. If it was not, then it would be a worthless piece of paper since a will cannot be acted upon until it is confirmed by the probate court to be a valid will. Then, as to taking ID; why? Probate files are public record and due to that, anybody can get a copy of the file.

Then, the clerk is not going to do no 'splainin on behalf of the OP to anybody. There are legal procedures the OP must follow to have the court act on any requests.

Probate might be completed within a couple of years. A wrong executor or administrator can drag out the probate of real estate, accounts and other assets for as much as 10 years. If the executor of the estate is not performing their job well or proves to be untrustworthy, family members can petition to remove the executor at any time during the proceedings.

might be completed within a couple years????? Holy cow!!!! It should be handled in less than a year in most cases. If you have something taking 10 years...well, not going to happen. A court isn't going to allow it. It would close the case for lack of prosecution if you are taking that long.

Check out the Laws and Rules of your state for the executor. There are certain procedures they must follow. One is to file a request to be the Executor, state this approved appointment to all beneficiaries, file the will with a list of assets with Probate Court and provide beneficiaries periodic written financial reports. Given that, you may petition the court to have your niece removed.

Oh geesh. More generic info that is useless to the OP. THERE IS AN EXECUTOR THAT HAS BEEN APPOINTED AS SUCH BY THE COURTS. It's a bit late to challenge it now.

btw, there is much evidence based research suggesting stoke can be caused by stress.
According to Journal of Neurology, Neurosurgery and Psychiatry, published week of August 30, 2012, in the Living with chronic stress increased stroke risk almost four-fold. Stress is a well-recognized risk factor for heart attack, but the study is among the first to suggest a direct impact on stroke

ok, provide something that proves it causes a stroke; not merely exacerbates an underlying physical issue but in itself causes a stroke. If you will educate yourself and figure out what a stroke is, you will find that it is simply not possible for mere stress to cause a stroke.

additionally, if you will read what you linked and much more, you will find that it is not short term stress that is the concern. You will find that chronic stress is what is being looked at as increasing the likelihood of strokes. After you accept that, you should probably look up the definition of chronic stress since I suspect that alludes you as well.


so, imjustsayin; don't

 

[jbhenson]

Wosrt case scenario

Let me see if I can help without reading your other threads.

Your issues are not about stroke related to stress nor the difficulty in obtaining a VA back mortgage.

It seems your problem is Executor’s delay (which you believe to be intentional). Probate Court is a long process. The deed must go through Probate Court, will be signed over to the Executor who then signs it over to you.

In my county and state there is a web page for Probate Court where you can do a Case Search. If you have this ability, see if the case is still active. If you have a copy of the will which shows you are a beneficiary of the estate, you might take that with you and proper identification to the Probate Court where the estate is being processed. Ask the clerk to speak to a magistrate and explain your case.

Probate might be completed within a couple of years. A wrong executor or administrator can drag out the probate of real estate, accounts and other assets for as much as 10 years. If the executor of the estate is not performing their job well or proves to be untrustworthy, family members can petition to remove the executor at any time during the proceedings.

Check out the Laws and Rules of your state for the executor. There are certain procedures they must follow. One is to file a request to be the Executor, state this approved appointment to all beneficiaries, file the will with a list of assets with Probate Court and provide beneficiaries periodic written financial reports. Given that, you may petition the court to have your niece removed.

Also note the Executor’s main duty to the deceased is to protect their assets, pay all debts, taxes and settle any other accounts as well as distribute assets according to the Will.

Good luck with your meeting tomorrow.

btw, there is much evidence based research suggesting stoke can be caused by stress.
According to Journal of Neurology, Neurosurgery and Psychiatry, published week of August 30, 2012, in the Living with chronic stress increased stroke risk almost four-fold. Stress is a well-recognized risk factor for heart attack, but the study is among the first to suggest a direct impact on stroke

Ive met with the Judge beofre, and spoke with the clerks the delay isnt them, they are waiting for the niece to sign the paperwork. I filed a claim against the estate to prevent them from closing it out, and the lack of my fathers estate being probated causing me another problem. My sister is supposed to sign the deed and my niece too, either that or pay my claim. The house isnt worth as much as my claim. I also filed 2 small claims against my niece for the interest dued to her 4 years of delays, and my sister for her to either pay off her part of the debt, or sign over the deed to me. I also added some things they stole from my house while I was gone, and filed a criminal complaint against them as well for burglery. I think the attorney is going to come to the judges office tomorrow with the deeds and want me to drop all cases.

I will all but the criminal, and the small claims against my niece ,s she can pay for me having to rush back to the east coast for a meeting which they canceled at the last minute costing me 4000 dollars to get here. IF she pays that Ill drop everything, but whats worse case scenario her attorney can come to meeting with?

 

[imjustsayin]

I see, a budding comedian.

boy, that helps...um...well...

it doesn't help anything, but also incorrect in it's description of the process as well. Nothing is "signed over to the executor". but let's say it was; just who is doing this signing over to the executor?

The executor is the authorized representative of the decedents estate and as such, "stands in place" of the decedent and as such, there is no need to "sign over" anything to the executor.

would you take the time to read the guys posts so you have a clue of what he has done.

additionally; the will, the only will that matters, has already been filed with the probate court. If it was not, then it would be a worthless piece of paper since a will cannot be acted upon until it is confirmed by the probate court to be a valid will. Then, as to taking ID; why? Probate files are public record and due to that, anybody can get a copy of the file.

Then, the clerk is not going to do no 'splainin on behalf of the OP to anybody. There are legal procedures the OP must follow to have the court act on any requests.

might be completed within a couple years????? Holy cow!!!! It should be handled in less than a year in most cases. If you have something taking 10 years...well, not going to happen. A court isn't going to allow it. It would close the case for lack of prosecution if you are taking that long.

Oh geesh. More generic info that is useless to the OP. THERE IS AN EXECUTOR THAT HAS BEEN APPOINTED AS SUCH BY THE COURTS. It's a bit late to challenge it now.

ok, provide something that proves it causes a stroke; not merely exacerbates an underlying physical issue but in itself causes a stroke. If you will educate yourself and figure out what a stroke is, you will find that it is simply not possible for mere stress to cause a stroke.

additionally, if you will read what you linked and much more, you will find that it is not short term stress that is the concern. You will find that chronic stress is what is being looked at as increasing the likelihood of strokes. After you accept that, you should probably look up the definition of chronic stress since I suspect that alludes you as well.


so, imjustsayin; don't

Jk, Your comments to me are pretty close to defamation or the communication of a false statement that harms the reputation of an individual, group, etc.

I spoke the OP’s language

jbhenson told you:
You making an assumption that is incorrect, I did nothing wrong, the issue is not whos culpuable, I know whos doing the wrong things, I just want to know how to fix it. You all seem more concerned with the things wrong than helping, why?

If she doesnt want to sign off on the house, ok, she can pay me back her portion of the debt and then I can force a sale of it with my 5/6 once I get the part my niece is holding up.

I had no physical issues, the only thing in my life going on negative is this crap, I would respectfully disagree with you on that, and the doctor involved at the hospital said it was due to stress. I dont know how you can diagnose it better than my doctor who sees me, but hey if your a doctor too, ok, I guess thats your opinion.

As for probate court doors, I have spent the last few weeks in their valt reading, and I have gotten more help than here. People seem to want to blame instead of help. Not what I came here for, but oh well. Im still trying hoping some people will be helpful instead of the constant berating.

The process in probate court is being dragged out tortously by my niece. They keep waving the exectrix deed to assent UNSIGNED in front of me, trying to get me to do one thig or another they want me to do, along with an unsigned quit claim deed from my sister. Then when a simple typo is found on the document they rewrite it again, and next time it has some grievous error that I cath and refuse to sign. This has happened over and over again. I paid one attorney 250 dollars to prepare the documents and they refused to sign them. I have to meet with Judge and opposing counsel in judges chambers tuesday. the reason I came here to ask questions. So far unanswered.


It was you, JK who responded with:

you're missing the point. Stress does not cause a stroke.. I have to guess you have no idea what a stroke is or you would realize it just isn't going to happen without some underlying cause. While the stress may have exacerbated that underlying issue, it was not the actual cause of the stroke.

the mortgage company doesn't change the title to anybody's name. Whoever the owner is does that. The is the ONLY entity that can execute a deed transferring their interest to you. So, who failed to execute that deed to transfer title to you?

Oh, that's right; your parents or your sister or your sister as the executor or.....gee, who else can we blame for your problem?

My response was to jbhenson, not you. Stopping trying to harass me with your assumptions about my personal experience and how I respond to a post. I was the executor of my parents estate. My legal actions were at the direction of my parents’ attorney who prepared the trust and wills. Everything was in their Trust, investments, and bank accounts except my father’s car. I filed with probate court and notified all beneficiaries that I had excepted the appointment as executor. The title to the car was processed through Probate Court and placed in my name so I could make several trips to the BVM and have it put (signed over, certified) in my sibling’s name, according to the Will.

It was a very lengthy and time consuming ordeal. I shared my experience with henson because he stated he believed his niece’s intentions were intentionally causing a delay in the process of “signing over” the deed. That may be true but the process has no time frames and not intentionally causing him the stress he is feeling.

What are your experiences with Probate Court? Was the process delayed by a misspelling of a beneficiary’s name? an incorrect social security number? or perhaps something I didn’t encounter? How did you receive the title to a car or deed to property? Who put it in the name of the executor? What was your experience putting that document in the beneficiary's name?

Regarding stoke caused by stress, I presented an article published in the Journal of Neurology, Neurosurgery and Psychiatry, 2012 which is written about evidence based research. I’m am not on this forum to provide you an education on the effects of stress on the body. I'm not hear to answer your questions. There are co-morbid conditions that are well known factors which can lead to stroke. We all know those. What you apparently haven't come across in your medical practice is chronic or short term stress causing strokes.

In your medical training and experience you have not encountered how chronic stress affects the immune system. Nor are you familiar with studies conducted on how, in some people, prolonged or frequent mental stress causes an exaggerated increase in blood pressure, a risk factor for stroke. I have absolutely no intentions of providing you any information on any medical condition. My point is your medical advice and diagnosis to this gentleman is in direct conflict with what he told you his doctor told him.

He got no help from this forum despite the fact he politely asked you and several others to stop blaming him for the situation he is experiencing and to stop making irrelevant statements.

According to this internet dictionary you fit the definition of a troll (/ˈtroʊl/, /ˈtrɒl/) is a person who sows discord on the Internet by starting arguments or upsetting people,[1] by posting inflammatory,[2] extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community (such as a forum, chat room, or blog), either accidentally[3][4] or with the deliberate intent of provoking readers into an emotional response[5] or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion.[6]

Don’t ask me to look something up for you or to post examples of your behavior on this forum and EL, it’s obvious to everyone. And this has been stated by many people who visit this website looking for an opinion on the issues experienced by other members on this forum.

 

[imjustsayin]

Ive met with the Judge beofre, and spoke with the clerks the delay isnt them, they are waiting for the niece to sign the paperwork. I filed a claim against the estate to prevent them from closing it out, and the lack of my fathers estate being probated causing me another problem. My sister is supposed to sign the deed and my niece too, either that or pay my claim. The house isnt worth as much as my claim. I also filed 2 small claims against my niece for the interest dued to her 4 years of delays, and my sister for her to either pay off her part of the debt, or sign over the deed to me. I also added some things they stole from my house while I was gone, and filed a criminal complaint against them as well for burglery. I think the attorney is going to come to the judges office tomorrow with the deeds and want me to drop all cases.

I will all but the criminal, and the small claims against my niece ,s she can pay for me having to rush back to the east coast for a meeting which they canceled at the last minute costing me 4000 dollars to get here. IF she pays that Ill drop everything, but whats worse case scenario her attorney can come to meeting with?

Although you didn't meet with your niece, it sounds like you got some good information. I was concerned she might attempt to sell the house as it is within her authority as executor to sell assets to settle the deceased debts. It sounds like the court is watching out for anything she might dishonesty attempt.

 

[Proserpina]

Jk, Your comments to me are pretty close to defamation or the communication of a false statement that harms the reputation of an individual, group, etc.

Okay, that made me laugh out loud.

Get a grip. You're beginning to sound like...well, regular posters will know who I mean.

I spoke the OP’s language

jbhenson told you:
You making an assumption that is incorrect, I did nothing wrong, the issue is not whos culpuable, I know whos doing the wrong things, I just want to know how to fix it. You all seem more concerned with the things wrong than helping, why?

If she doesnt want to sign off on the house, ok, she can pay me back her portion of the debt and then I can force a sale of it with my 5/6 once I get the part my niece is holding up.

I had no physical issues, the only thing in my life going on negative is this crap, I would respectfully disagree with you on that, and the doctor involved at the hospital said it was due to stress. I dont know how you can diagnose it better than my doctor who sees me, but hey if your a doctor too, ok, I guess thats your opinion.

As for probate court doors, I have spent the last few weeks in their valt reading, and I have gotten more help than here. People seem to want to blame instead of help. Not what I came here for, but oh well. Im still trying hoping some people will be helpful instead of the constant berating.

The process in probate court is being dragged out tortously by my niece. They keep waving the exectrix deed to assent UNSIGNED in front of me, trying to get me to do one thig or another they want me to do, along with an unsigned quit claim deed from my sister. Then when a simple typo is found on the document they rewrite it again, and next time it has some grievous error that I cath and refuse to sign. This has happened over and over again. I paid one attorney 250 dollars to prepare the documents and they refused to sign them. I have to meet with Judge and opposing counsel in judges chambers tuesday. the reason I came here to ask questions. So far unanswered.


It was you, JK who responded with:

you're missing the point. Stress does not cause a stroke.. I have to guess you have no idea what a stroke is or you would realize it just isn't going to happen without some underlying cause. While the stress may have exacerbated that underlying issue, it was not the actual cause of the stroke.

the mortgage company doesn't change the title to anybody's name. Whoever the owner is does that. The is the ONLY entity that can execute a deed transferring their interest to you. So, who failed to execute that deed to transfer title to you?

Oh, that's right; your parents or your sister or your sister as the executor or.....gee, who else can we blame for your problem?

My response was to jbhenson, not you. Stopping trying to harass me with your assumptions about my personal experience and how I respond to a post. I was the executor of my parents estate. My legal actions were at the direction of my parents’ attorney who prepared the trust and wills. Everything was in their Trust, investments, and bank accounts except my father’s car. I filed with probate court and notified all beneficiaries that I had excepted the appointment as executor. The title to the car was processed through Probate Court and placed in my name so I could make several trips to the BVM and have it put (signed over, certified) in my sibling’s name, according to the Will.

It was a very lengthy and time consuming ordeal. I shared my experience with henson because he stated he believed his niece’s intentions were intentionally causing a delay in the process of “signing over” the deed. That may be true but the process has no time frames and not intentionally causing him the stress he is feeling.

What are your experiences with Probate Court? Was the process delayed by a misspelling of a beneficiary’s name? an incorrect social security number? or perhaps something I didn’t encounter? How did you receive the title to a car or deed to property? Who put it in the name of the executor? What was your experience putting that document in the beneficiary's name?

Regarding stoke caused by stress, I presented an article published in the Journal of Neurology, Neurosurgery and Psychiatry, 2012 which is written about evidence based research. I’m am not on this forum to provide you an education on the effects of stress on the body. I'm not hear to answer your questions. There are co-morbid conditions that are well known factors which can lead to stroke. We all know those. What you apparently haven't come across in your medical practice is chronic or short term stress causing strokes.

In your medical training and experience you have not encountered how chronic stress affects the immune system. Nor are you familiar with studies conducted on how, in some people, prolonged or frequent mental stress causes an exaggerated increase in blood pressure, a risk factor for stroke. I have absolutely no intentions of providing you any information on any medical condition. My point is your medical advice and diagnosis to this gentleman is in direct conflict with what he told you his doctor told him.

He got no help from this forum despite the fact he politely asked you and several others to stop blaming him for the situation he is experiencing and to stop making irrelevant statements.

According to this internet dictionary you fit the definition of a troll (/ˈtroʊl/, /ˈtrɒl/) is a person who sows discord on the Internet by starting arguments or upsetting people,[1] by posting inflammatory,[2] extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community (such as a forum, chat room, or blog), either accidentally[3][4] or with the deliberate intent of provoking readers into an emotional response[5] or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion.[6]

Don’t ask me to look something up for you or to post examples of your behavior on this forum and EL, it’s obvious to everyone. And this has been stated by many people who visit this website looking for an opinion on the issues experienced by other members on this forum.

Yawn.

WJ returns.

 

[justalayman]

imjustsayin;3226789]Jk, Your comments to me are pretty close to defamation or the communication of a false statement that harms the reputation of an individual, group, etc.

imjustsayin you are hilarious






My response was to jbhenson, not you. Stopping trying to harass me with your assumptions about my personal experience and how I respond to a post.

I was the executor of my parents estate.

and that makes you an expert? All too many people take on the task when they shouldn't

Everything was in their Trust, investments, and bank accounts except my father’s car. I filed with probate court and notified all beneficiaries that I had excepted the appointment as executor. The title to the car was processed through Probate Court and placed in my name so I could make several trips to the BVM and have it put (signed over, certified) in my sibling’s name, according to the Will.

so what about the trusts, investments, and bank accounts? You speak as if the fact they were trusts, investments, or bank accounts there is some magic that removes them from probate assets. They could be; they might be; but not simply because of the titles you put on them inferring such...

but the car title was put in your name? so your father left it to you then? If not, you had no business placing it in your name.

What are your experiences with Probate Court? Was the process delayed by a misspelling of a beneficiary’s name? an incorrect social security number? or perhaps something I didn’t encounter? How did you receive the title to a car or deed to property? Who put it in the name of the executor?

nobody, that was my point.

Regarding stoke caused by stress, I presented an article published in the Journal of Neurology, Neurosurgery and Psychiatry, 2012 which is written about evidence based research.

No, you took a snippet out of an article that cited exactly what you posted; that's all.

What you apparently haven't come across in your medical practice is chronic or short term stress causing strokes.

Of the 100 or so sites I browsed through, apparently neither have any doctors.

In your medical training and experience you have not encountered how chronic stress affects the immune system.

Nor are you familiar with studies conducted on how, in some people, prolonged or frequent mental stress causes an exaggerated increase in blood pressure, a risk factor for stroke.

duh!!! who said anything different. The OP and you both have said stress causes a stroke; it doesn't. even here you speak of risk factors which is what I said; it may exacerbate an underlying issue but in itself, it does not cause a stroke.

I have absolutely no intentions of providing you any information on any medical condition.

that's great because so far you have been wrong. I woudn't care for incorrect info.

 

[justalayman]

Okay, that made me laugh out loud.

Get a grip. You're beginning to sound like...well, regular posters will know who I mean.





Yawn.

WJ returns.

Ya think so? I think even wj showed more intelligence than this guy. wj was right...sometimes. The only thing that makes imjustsyin right is when he is so vague it's tough to be wrong.

 

[jbhenson]

Although you didn't meet with your niece, it sounds like you got some good information. I was concerned she might attempt to sell the house as it is within her authority as executor to sell assets to settle the deceased debts. It sounds like the court is watching out for anything she might dishonesty attempt.

I tried meeting with her at least 10 to 12 times, she refused to even discuss the case. I called, and wrote, and after one meeting she said I was harrassing her after 1 and 1/2 years of her doing nothing. So I started putting everything in writing and was asking for updates, which she ignored me completely. And I continued to write letters asking for updates.

But she dragged this otu more than 4 years for a case the probate court said should have taken 6 months. Im wondering what her attorney will say tomorrow, ask me to drop all cases I think, to which I will reply nope!

 

[imjustsayin]

I tried meeting with her at least 10 to 12 times, she refused to even discuss the case. I called, and wrote, and after one meeting she said I was harrassing her after 1 and 1/2 years of her doing nothing. So I started putting everything in writing and was asking for updates, which she ignored me completely. And I continued to write letters asking for updates.

But she dragged this otu more than 4 years for a case the probate court said should have taken 6 months. Im wondering what her attorney will say tomorrow, ask me to drop all cases I think, to which I will reply nope!

Best of luck tomorrow.

 

[quincy]

Jk, Your comments to me are pretty close to defamation or the communication of a false statement that harms the reputation of an individual, group, etc.

No, imjustsayin. The comments made by justalayman (I think you have your forums confused) were not pretty close to defamation.

... I'm not hear to answer your questions. ...

... Don't ask me to look something up for you ...

... or to post examples of your behavior on this forum and EL, it's obvious to everyone. And this has been stated by many people who visit this website looking for an opinion on the issues experienced by other members of this forum.

imjustsayin, you are (supposedly ) new to this forum. As a new member, you should know that you will be asked to support what you say. We all had to do this when we were new.

What you post will be questioned because, right now, you have NO reputation on this forum. There is no reason for anyone to believe anything you say. If you don't, won't or can't support what you say, with proper legal cites when necessary, you will find you have a very difficult time on this forum.

As for your last statement: THAT was very troll-like. You are trying to inflame the members here. Knock it off, please.


Sorry for my brief hijack of your thread, jbhenson. I, too, wish you good luck with the attorney tomorrow.

 

[imjustsayin]

Quincy, I am a mature woman with lot 's of experience- I am a licensed medical professional; I was executor of my parent's estate and criticized by my two siblings who did not understand Probate or the details involved liquidating investments, put in my name as executor and transferred to beneficiaries per Trust; a baby boomer who has experienced brokers who move money around to obtain a fee and now working with a financial adviser who specializes in helping woman. I purchased an historic home and as home owner had a terrible experience with a general contractor who did the first phase of renovation. I own rental property and am very aware of leases, co-tenants and roommates who want to move in, share expenses but not be included on a lease. I don't rent cheap property. I volunteer in my community and sit on boards developing a senior services center in our community.
I joined the forum to help persons who are having difficulty with issues I have personally experienced. I was not aware there was an initiation after joining this forum. I am not used to having someone following me and make statements that my experience is wrong. My comments are intended for the OP. I thank you for you advice.

 

[quincy]

I am a mature woman with lot 's of experience- I am a licensed medical professional, I was executor of my parent's estate and harrased by my two siblings who did not understand probate or the the details involved liquidating investments, a baby boomer who has had experienced brokers who move money around to obtain a fee and now working with a financial advisor who specializes in helping woman. I purchased an historic and as home owner had a terrible experience with a general contractor who did the first phase of renovation. I own rental property and am very aware of licenses, co-tenants and roommates who want to move in, share expenses but not be included on a lease. I don't rent cheap property.
I joined the forum to help persons who are having difficulty with issues I have personal experience. I was not aware there was an initiation aftering joining this forum. I am not used to having someone make statements that I am wrong. My comments are for the OP. But thanks for you advice.

As I said, there is no reason to believe anything you say.

And who you are, and what you do, is not nearly as important on this forum as what you post.

There is no "initiation" on this forum. When you provide information for a poster, however, you need to provide accurate information and you should be able to provide support for it when asked.

If you consistently post accurate and/or pertinent information, you will be welcomed. If you consistently post incorrect information, the information will be corrected and you will not be as welcome. We are not here to confuse the visitors with misinformation.