Neihbor "Crossing the Line"

[Shadowbunny]

Everyone on this board hates weed whatever the law, so you'll never get a straight answer.

You've been informed the government is investigating your family - at this point you'd be stupid to not hire a lawyer.

That's quite the assumption, xylene. I missed the survey you sent out to query everyone's opinion on the subject.

 

[Shadowbunny]

Yeah - I kind of got that vibe. Naive & uninformed responses. .

If you don't like the advice you've been given, I'm sure there's an attorney out there who will be happy to take your money to tell you the same thing.

And I wish you well in your struggle with cancer.

 

[justalayman]

Everyone on this board hates weed whatever the law, so you'll never get a straight answer.

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maybe you shouldn't speak for others. You really don't know what you're talking about concerning this matter

 

[FarmerJ]

You wrote >
We tried this many times. She's literally insane. < your neighbor likely has been so overwhelmed with her situation and is Extremely bitter and SO angry to a point that she lashes out at others, I am not excusing her bad choices when it comes to how she drives but until you have experienced what it is like to try to go to a store or just walk in the door from work or even trying to go out say to a church coffee house and the one you are giving cares to has even encouraged you to try to get out even when they know that NO one else would be around and first thing in the door they are calling for you because they are incontinent or that stoma bag came off or they slipped out of bed , or what it is like to have start supper , then have to interrupt it or delay your own shower or other needs because now you not only have to clean them up but you have to strip bedding, rinse it off and what ever else they had on , start laundry and what sorts of things unpaid non professional caregivers who are burned out feel then do your best to create a bit more privacy for your self like with temporary screening , I get it that you have your own health issues, Not all here are anti pot, My cousin was his moms dealer for years, she had glaucoma ever since I was a teen and the pot he procured for his mom with careful use spared her the loss of her sight for many many years. Ive known people with cancer who couldn't eat and hold down food with out one to three uses of a one hitter about 30 minutes before eating. ( You might even see fewer bad behaviors from her if you went as far as calling social services to see if they might want to visit with her and see if there are any programs that could get someone into that home so she can have time away = Time away may help her with her anger , otherwise call the police when her driving is dangerous.

 

[justalayman]

We also explained that this neighbor has been a problem for our entire entire block, and has had similar run-ins with other neighbors and filed similar "false" reports.

false reports? Not a single incident you described was false.

She's a piece of work.

gee, that's exactly how I feel about you after what you wrote about your neighbor.

In fact I saw her peering through her blinds just a few moments ago into our yard, as I was composing this email.

and that's a problem why? Are you suggesting she is restrained from looking out of her window? Sounds like the marijuana might be making you a bit paranoid. It has that effect on some people.

 

[westside]

Does she know you have a mm card?

What is wrong with her showing concern for children that may be subjected to marijuana smoke? I would rather see a concerned person make sure things are ok rather than ignoring the issue and the children be injured. I've seen too many children injured, or even killed, because somebody didn't speak up when they saw something that might have been a bad situstion for the kids.

I'd rather see a parent's rights protected. There are literally thousands of nonsense reports make to child welfare agencies for spite. This post has all of the earmarks of such disgusting activity.

 

[rhythmMAN]

false reports? Not a single incident you described was false. gee, that's exactly how I feel about you after what you wrote about your neighbor. and that's a problem why? Are you suggesting she is restrained from looking out of her window? Sounds like the marijuana might be making you a bit paranoid. It has that effect on some people.

Ok justalayman. You can go ahead and not respond anymore. You clearly don't understand what's happening here.

 

[rhythmMAN]

I'd rather see a parent's rights protected. There are literally thousands of nonsense reports make to child welfare agencies for spite. This post has all of the earmarks of such disgusting activity.

Precisely. Evidently this lady does everything 100% out of unwarranted spite - even when we completely keep to ourselves.

I honestly expected more intellectual responses here - rather than such alarmist close-minded spew. Now I know!

 

[Just Blue]

Ok justalayman. You can go ahead and not respond anymore. You clearly don't understand what's happening here.

Honey....You don't understand what the TOS are of this site if you think you can dictate who, especially a long time and very valued member, responds to this or any other thread.

 

[justalayman]

Precisely. Evidently this lady does everything 100% out of unwarranted spite - even when we completely keep to ourselves.

I honestly expected more intellectual responses here - rather than such alarmist close-minded spew. Now I know!

Ok justalayman. You can go ahead and not respond anymore. You clearly don't understand what's happening here.

There are always two sides to the story and given your side includes defending children who were trespassing, expressed anger for the neighbor parking in "your spot" for your garbage cans, and legally exercising her rights to look through her windows, and where as a person almost invariably tells their tale in the best light for themselves, I can imagine you are far from innocent here.

As to me not responding anymore; um, not your decision. It's funny how people who are expecting everybody they talk to to take their side get all upset when not everybody supports them.

 

[Just Blue]

Precisely. Evidently this lady does everything 100% out of unwarranted spite - even when we completely keep to ourselves.

I honestly expected more intellectual responses here - rather than such alarmist close-minded spew. Now I know!

Dearie YOU are the one bitching about a lady looking out her window at you. NOTHING, with the exception of the driving issue (possibly) is illegal. The only "spew" being posted is from you. Geesh.

 

[Just Blue]

There are always two sides to the story and given your side includes defending children who were trespassing, expressed anger for the neighbor parking in "your spot" for your garbage cans, and legally exercising her rights to look through her windows, and where as a person almost invariably tells their tale in the best light for themselves, I can imagine you are far from innocent here.

As to me not responding anymore; um, not your decision. It's funny how people who are expecting everybody they talk to to take their side get all upset when not everybody supports them.

Almost no one supported him.

 

[LdiJ]

Yeah - I kind of got that vibe. Naive & uninformed responses. Evidently they think smoking grass is as bad as heroin or crack. Silly me for having cancer, and medicating legally in the my own back yard. Which has 6 foot high concrete walls around it, mind you.

Your "vibe" is not accurate...and I do not know where xylene got that impression. Telling you that it was not a false report does not mean that everybody is anti weed. I think that we are all well aware of how much good it can do, medically.

 

[Just Blue]

Your "vibe" is not accurate...and I do not know where xylene got that impression. Telling you that it was not a false report does not mean that everybody is anti weed. I think that we are all well aware of how much good it can do, medically.

Personally I don't care if someone smokes to chill out after work...as long as they use common sense and are of age. I'm not a pot smoker....but I never thought pot should be illegal.

 

[LdiJ]

Personally I don't care if someone smokes to chill out after work...as long as they use common sense and are of age. I'm not a pot smoker....but I never thought pot should be illegal.

Neither do I. I think it should be legalized, regulated and taxed...just like tobacco and alcohol. Not only would it put a huge amount of criminals out of business, but it would add to the tax revenue.