Recent content by msdad

What is the name of your state? OH If a man and woman are living together (boyfriend/girlfriend) and the woman has his baby can she go after child support even though they are splitting all household costs and the costs to raise the child? If so, can there then be a custody arangement put into...

What is the name of your state?OH For those of you who remember me, I just wanted to let you know that my visitation with my son will start in October! Court is in September and no matter what they do, I know for a fact that I will get visitation in October with my son. I hope she sees this...

My lawyer told me to consider letting his step-father adopt him, so I wouldn't have to pay anymore. Problem is, is that my son and his step father haven't lived together long enough. It has to be 1 year. They've only been married 5 months. They were together since my son was 1 and never...

There are plenty of people who have more DUI's than I. The first three was when I was very young. Even if they bring these up, it doesn't PROVE that I have a problem. Raise question maybe, but it doesn't prove anything. I doubt it would have any effect on my getting visitation either! I...

I'm not an alcoholic. Even with the DUI's the courts can't say/prove I am either.

well, I'm sure I'll get the visitation. It might be a long road, but I'll get it. My girlfriend use to tell me to get visitation and now thinks my ex is a bitch because I still have to pay and my son might get his name changed. As much justice as you guys think that my ex has, there is no...

well sorry. because I always seem to cause an uproar in here, I can't seem to remember what YOU said. That's why I asked the question again. Despite all of your loving affection for me, you were one of the only ones giving actual advice. I know that my ex is going to put every possible...

OK. Stealth given everything you know about this. Keep in mind that I do not speak (I know you'd have a comment on that!) In your opinion do you think I would win the name change objection and get some type of supervised visitation?

You are so kind to me! Anyway...My lawyer did do a backround check on her. There was no DUI's. The only public record they found on her was a judgment that was paid, and one that was not. Do you think, (though it might not be a big deal to you) that the judge asked him some of these...

Well hopefully the Judge asked my son if she drinks, because as I've told you guys before I know she was out with friends drinking and having cigarettes. Will they ask my son those questions, or are they just about the name change? Will they ask WHY he calls ex's husband dad? I don't know...

I doubt that the supervised visitation would last that long, or that they would make me take a parenting class. I live with my girlfriends kids who are around the same age as my son. They are fine. Drug testing? Alcohol only takes 2 days to get out of a persons system. I'm not a drunk, I...

You are the ones I'm totally honest with. And I didn't think that I was really lying on the discoveries. My son had an interview with the judge last week. Will my lawyer be able to find out what he said? My lawyer has said that a lot of times kids will say that they want to meet their...

What is IMO? He does return calls it just takes him forever to do it. He seems confident that we can win the name change and visitation if I like. He says that her attorney is just going to keep throwing things at us so I will give up. I have a feeling from doing research on this site and on...

My attorney doesn't return calls very well. I was just trying to get opinions.

well, my lawyer has been telling her lawyer that we are going to seek visitation. So maybe she'll drop the whole thing. Because she doesn't want me to see him. My lawyer says its best if we do file for this soon, whether I see him or not, but to use it to get what we want. If she drops...