Recent content by shaejay

Oh I know FOR SURE he doesn’t want full custody . He constantly reminds me . Even if he did his mother won’t “let him” because they are paying for him to go to school and he isn’t allowed to have our son in the student apartments because of the excessive drugs and alchohol he mentioned . So how...

That’s definitely some penny for thought ... but I left out a detail . It wasn’t that I moved out of my moms because I wanted to . I moved out because I HAD to. Honestly I would’ve been homeless . I stayed in a hotel for two weeks and was EXTREMLY blessed with this house . My mother’s boyfriend...

Making sure I stayed true to not changing my sons address. So I haven’t violated the order , I’m trying to go through the necessary steps I have to take to get it changed .

You aren’t bothering me ... just seems like your kinda driving a nail in the wrong 4x4 here. I’m trying everything I can to do this the right way . All I want is peace ...

THANK YOU . That’s all I was looking for . Some honest insight not judgment on the situation . I literally just want to know what to do here . I’m not trying to violate the court order that’s why I’ve taken certain precautions.

He’s also the guy that made sure food was on the table while I was sick and sat up with my son while his “dad” was still pissed about the fact I decided to keep my son ... I’m literally asking one thing in particular and you’re replying like I personally hurt you

Is cohabitation really this frowned upon ? I can see if I was an unfit mother and my s/o was a drug dealer or somthing ... we are literally as close to the family you see on Christmas cards it’s sickening on the outside looking in lol just trying to lighten my anxiety with a little humor

He Actually he knows where his son is . I told him , my mother told him , hes never not known where he was. I’ve came to the obvious conclusion that yes I need a lawyer ,but all this just som my son who came out of me can live with me ‍♀️ It’s not even like let’s say worse case scenario my son...

Honestly ... I couldn’t tell you this is my first go round with this (and hopefully last) I thought that’s usually how it goes . All I know is no sooner that I finally made the decision to put my child’s father on child support , I get a custody hearing date . It’s not like I didn’t let the man...

I live in North Carolina . I have a one-year-old son . There are a lot of details to this so I hope I at least give enough for someone to give me an honest opinion : Recently I move to a beautiful home in Apex North Carolina (Peak of good living here , lots of luxury) this actually came...