Recent content by SueBee1062

I didn't realize I was. I know now that I was. My apologies. Guess I better re-read the rules. Sorry.

I was mistaken. Actually, it was the investment company, The Hartford, not the 3rd party administrator (Polycomp), who withheld $150 for "pension admin distribution fee." Crud!! $150 is 35% of what I invested and what I expected to receive when I cashed out--except for the taxes being...

Wow. That's scary. I think it's horrible when women show up out of the woodwork 12 years after their baby is born, and request child support and order paternity tests, etc., and order the father to pay 12 years retro support. I think it's criminal that they have waited that long not to...

Don't have more kids than you can afford to support. If you can't feed em, don't breed em. Yes, $443/month sounds fair.

I understand SS isn't going to pay a lump sum for the deadbeat's arrearages. I want to know if SS, at the time they distribute any payment (monthly) to my ex deadbeat, if SS will take a percentage of that and pay it to me every month because he owes more than God in arrearages. You know, like...

I'll explain I should have pointed out I was speaking specifically of my ex-husband, not people in general. My ex-husband actively keeps his name off leases, renter's agreements, phone bills, etc. He doesn't want to be found because not only is he horribly in arrearages for his 17 year old...

What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? California. After jumping through hoops cashing out my 401K balance owed to me since I was terminated from my job last June 2004 (I received my 401k check today), I opened the envelope with my check in it, and lo and behold, the 3rd...

LIFE'S NATURAL LAWS (POST DIVORCE, VISITATIONS, CHILD SUPPORT COLLECTING, ETC.) ------------------------------------ 1. For every "psycho ex wife CP" or "whacko mom CP" there's an "insufferable deadbeat dad NCP." There just is. 2. BOTH mom and dad are financially, physically, and...

Why the Jail Sentence? Wouldn't it be easier and smarter to just stop doing things that get you thrown in jail? Most people are in jail for drugs, drunk driving, injuring someone, stealing, ignoring court orders, etc. I just have little sympathy for people who get thrown in the slammer. You...

Reasons for not filing contempt order Other reasons people don't immediately file contempt orders for back child support: 1. The deadbeat doesn't have an address or phone number (mooches off friends by living with them and using their phone number) 2. Won't tell family where he lives...

Future Social Security California. My ex husband has an active lifestyle set up around evading paying child support and his new career is being an intangible ghost so I don't know where he lives, his phone number, and his employer (if he even works) is "under the table." He puts in many...