Recent content by sugarj

You should be able to call the clerks office in the county that your case would be heard. They should be able to confirm if anything has been filed. They can usually do a query by name but just in case it has been misspelled in the system, have the case number handy. I think that it would...

clarifications NC Sorry, just got back to the computer. Sorry for the confustion. Currently my visitation takes place in my town of residence. My ex and I meet halfway for the exchange. We are going through mediation again (once after divorce and now to update some things) and he wants to...

What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? NC I am looking for some suggestions on how to handle a situation. I am going through the mediation process. I currently live nearly 4 hours from my ex, whom has primary physical custody. The kids ages are 9 and 6. He wants to...

I think that Ldj is right about the year. It's been a little over a year since i filed my last FAFSA. Something to consider though, go by your financial aid office and see if they will allow extenuating circumstances to be a factor in determing financial aid. I think that in order to be...

update and questions The psychologist that my ex took our daughter to was not a forensic psychologist at least in terms of evaluating the parents and children concering custody. To date I have never been asked anything about anything. The ex parte hearing turned into a temporary custody...

Does that particular court system have a mediation process? If so, perhaps you could contact the mediator to see if something could be started on that end. It's worth a try

Sorry, I was rereading the posts. OK, so what everyone is saying is that if this is actually a court ordered psychologist, then I should also be asked questions before the report is turned into the court. However, if this is just a psychologist that they are taking my daughter to in order to...

Thank you all for your input. I have not been contacted by the psychologist. It seems though that the appointment was made before the ex parte order was sent for review by a judge. Totally against what the SM said. I did however get some supporting information (my 9 year olds affidavit). I...

What is the name of your state? NC See "modification of visitation" for background. Since I was unable to get a consultation with an attorney before my winter break visitation began, I took the advice given and did not sign a 'voluntary agreement' that was written by my ex's attorney. I did...

No, my friend has never been in trouble with the law. I honestly dont know what my ex might have 'dug' up about him. As for the kids ages, they are 9 and 6. From what my ex has told me, the 9 year old said that she saw us together. I emphasize, we were not together. When I asked my ex to...

Thanks for the responses. I guess that I will call his attorney Monday morning and ask for a copy of this 'voluntary agreement' to be faxed to me and decide from there. I dont want the police involved. I have so dearly wanted the kids to be free to make up their own minds about me and their...

That's really about it. This is all that I know right now. During the week prior to my last visitation, the kids kept calling me, wanting me to pick them up, they wanted to move in, etc... It actually got to the point where my ex and I were discussing allowing the kids moving in with me...

sorry, I was just re-reading what I posted. I guess the bigger question would be, show I just go ahead and sign this 'voluntary' agreement with the idea that it would show cooperation considering that he has already filed for a modification? The statement, that I know as of right now states...

nc Thanks all for the advice. Ex is now telling me that if I dont sign a 'voluntary' agreement that he will withhold visitation for winter break. At this time, I dont inted to sign it. Yes, I do intend to show up to pick up the kids and return a second time with police in tow if necessary...

What is the name of your state? NC I have a situation with my ex concerning a modification of visitation. Ex resides in NC (where divorce, parenting agreement and CS were filed). I reside in SC. We have been divorced for over 2 years. Currently, kids live with him and new wife the majority...