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[prettyredhead]

Maybe this is how men should be. What's good for the goose and all. Why should men work? We should never, ever again think of a man who stays home while his wife works as a deadbeat,whether they have kids or not. He has rights too you know. Why should men work themselves to death for women, especially you? You aren't worth it. You're just looking for a meal ticket, so the next time you see a man doing the same thing, looking for a meal ticket that is, be proud of him because he is just like you.[/QUOTE]


Child, next time PM me quit hijacking threads to make a personal attack on me.
Men and women are not equal. Despite all those bra burning closet lesbians in the 60's. Men work, women mother. What is good for the goose is that Dad brings it home, and Mom cooks it.
And there are plenty of men who dont want an overly independant woman. Lots of men still want to take care of their women. I will take one of those, so that I may go to college at my leisure. I would like to go to Law School cupcake.

 

[caligirl73]

No smartie. A stay at home mother is priceless. Leave it up to DAD as it should be to support the family. All these latchkey kids have grown, and are still growing up to be non compassionate "people" who think that 50.50 is the only way,as their mother never cared enough about them to stay home and actually be a hands on, full time mother. That is where mothers belong, at home. That is my final answer.

Red, I do agree with you to a point regarding stay at home mom's, but I will defend us "working moms" out there. I was a latch key kid when I was younger, I let myself in after school and was home alone for no more than 1/2 hour to an hour. Of course that was back in the day (1970's) when kids could be home alone and it was not a major issue. Both of my folks worked, and my mom would come home a short while after I was home to tend to me. When I was married to my ex, we decided that I would stay home and take care of our 2 children so that childcare costs would not be an issue. My ex was military, so housing and such were technically "paid for" by the military. I didnt always enjoy being a stay home mom, I really wanted to get back out in the working world! I love my kids, dont get me wrong, but staying home all the time and doing nothing but cleaning, cleaning, cooking and cleaning just wore me out! God gave me a brain (as someone previously stated) and I felt I needed to make use of it in the "other" working world!....My ex and I have been divorced for over 3 years now (thank GOD!!!) and I have worked since day one that I moved back here to Ca. to support my kids, I would NEVER rely on my ex to support me or my kids. Just as the post I stated earlier, my mom had a court order for child support from my father, and he NEVER paid a dime! She still went to work to support my brother and I, didnt rely on my father to pay the way.
When my boyfriend and I get married next year, I still plan on working even though he makes very good money. My kids are 12 and 6 and my future stepson is 10. They are not babies, yet they are not completely grown yet, and maybe staying home will help out. But, if we want to be able to make car payments, house payments, toys for the kids, family trips, groceries, bills, braces, etc. then I have to work as well. I cannot depend on my future husband to pick up the entire bill! I get very minimal child support from my ex, that alone barely covers child care every month!
I would LOVE to be able to go back to school and get my nursing degree. But, I just dont have time, being as though I am a single parent of 2 kids! Unfortunately dear, this is 2004 and not all women are as lucky as you might be to stay home and care for the kids like they did back in the 50's.

 

[Whyte Noise]

Prettyredhead was fired from her job, so she was a stay at home mom. That married man she was dating was also a co-worker and that was the reason she was fired from that job.

Then, she had another job...

And I work M-F 8:00 to 4:30/ My kids go to the YMCA after school for 1.5 hours and I pick them up. Then I go home, and mother them.

That was over 7 months ago though, so maybe she was messing around with a co-worker at that job too and got fired again. Or, maybe she just quit so she could live surrounded by cornfields.

But she had an idea.... follow around deadbeat moms and dads that don't pay CS, taping them working, and selling those tapes to the ex's to prove they are working. I guess she couldn't get her Illinois PI license though.

She says mothers should stay in the home and take care of their children, yet she herself worked a job until 4:30 in the afternoon while the YMCA took care of her kids for her. I call that a hypocrite now, just like I did 7 months ago.

Let's not forget this little tidbit too...

People should either choose a career or a child. Not both. Your children need you to be home, not at work.

Again, the hypocrite in her is showing.

Oh, but WAIT!! She meant only MARRIED moms should stay at home... not SINGLE moms. Single moms can work!

I never said single moms should not work. I am talking about Mr& Mrs Jones, (lets say) Mr. Jones makes between 40-70 thousand a year. A family of four-five can live on that alone. Mrs. Jones then decides that she is not happy, and deserves some "time away" and wants to get a job. Just for fun, just for extra money. This is the circumstance that makes me enraged. She should be home, and not out working, when Mr. makes enough to live off of comfortably. Albeit less than they would like.

She flip-flops more than Kerry or Bush either one ever thought about.

 

[caligirl73]

Oh, but WAIT!! She meant only MARRIED moms should stay at home... not SINGLE moms. Single moms can work!




Yeah, single moms HAVE to work, they really dont have any other choice. Kids gotta eat and be clothed, right???!!! God forbid unless they found some sugar daddy or family member to take care of them!

 

[stealth2]

Why did you delete your last post, red? The one that said:

You are a raging yeast infected c***. And I am at work a******, at the same
place I was 7 months ago. I still work cuz I have to , not because i want to.
Working single moms do so because it is necessary. Married working Moms, as
stated here, work to escape the little beasts they create. because they want to.
It burns you that I have an affair, doesnt it? Maybe I dont like living with a
man, I have to live with 3 already, and that is quite enough.
I wrote this mans wife, she made him quit working here, as if they fired me,
they would have to fire him. So, he resigned. And he still wont stay away. Must
be my intellect or my body that he wants so bad. Dunno.
But, for your information your immaturity is showing and you seem to have a
huge chip on your shoulder about affairs. Were you a "victim" of one? Awwww
sniff sniff.

 

[caligirl73]

Why did you delete your last post, red? The one that said:

Hey redhead, my marriage ended due to my ex husband having NUMEROUS affairs on me. I divorced his sorry ass in a heartbeat.
But, you know what I think?? You are the type of woman that would sh*t her shorts if your husband cheated on you and yet you think its ok to cheat on him. You are a sorry excuse for a human being if you think cheating is ok.

 

[prettyredhead]

Wont have to worry about that one. I wont marry anyone like that. I will only marry someone I can whip. There are lots of men like that. Besides, I want someone who will love my kids first, me second. I am a good mother.
And I think this is quite enough of the prettyredhead bashing. Sorry you married a man who was a heel. I had kids with one. He was let loose as well. No one has to play those games. But most, they stay despite the cheating spouse.
Just drop this childish crap. And I deleted it, as I regreted being so mean. But it isnt beneath you I see. Have you had your fun> I am going to reply to some real people here. Have a nice day.

 

[caligirl73]

Wont have to worry about that one. I wont marry anyone like that. I will only marry someone I can whip. There are lots of men like that. Besides, I want someone who will love my kids first, me second. I am a good mother.
And I think this is quite enough of the prettyredhead bashing. Sorry you married a man who was a heel. I had kids with one. He was let loose as well. No one has to play those games. But most, they stay despite the cheating spouse.
Just drop this childish crap. And I deleted it, as I regreted being so mean. But it isnt beneath you I see. Have you had your fun> I am going to reply to some real people here. Have a nice day.

I have read your past posts and they were quite demeaning and ridiculous. That is why I chose to respond.

 

[stealth2]

Just drop this childish crap. And I deleted it, as I regreted being so mean. But it isnt beneath you I see. Have you had your fun> I am going to reply to some real people here. Have a nice day.

The newbies you try to woo in deserve to know what sort of thing you spew. Next time, think first.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

This gives us redheads a bad name!

Not all redheads are that way BTW!