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Texas is the state.
Mom is the primary residence. For the last couple of years mother calls and harass the week before visits and the week after and we are not talking about a few phone calls we are talking about several a day at work, cell phones, and several at night. Child went home July 28 from summer visitation thinking we would see the child in a few weeks good summer visit, in fact the last day child went to Six Flags with a friend. He sent a certified letter for August went to the meeting place the standard visitation court order states mother didn't show up, sent a second certified letter for September mother didn't show up again, and then a third for October the mother showed up and husband unable to do pick up so me the step mom went to pick the child up mother showed up 1 1/2 late and then after big blow up her screaming and yelling at me, she called the cops so i waited for them she drove off came back while i was talkign to the cops, mind you i have maybe done 3 picks up in 3 years never a problem before now my husband does all the pick up and delivery it is a 2 1/2 hour trip to the meeting spot. Mother told cops that she would drive child to dad got on the highway going north bound but never showed up. She is haveing the child calls and say hurtful things to all of us including my children. There is long delays in responses which i am assumeing mother is coaching child on what to say. Mother hasn't work in what we guess a year, no remarriage, and very involved with daughter and visitation to our house. Mother is putting the child in the middle and we don't know what to do at this point mother wants to suspend or do supervised visitation saying child is scared of us. She is 9 and a wonderful child, no need for discipline and pleasent to be around. We me the step mom and child sew, cook, do everything togehter. Mother stated her concern in one of the million phone calls and we took child to counselor which made mother mad. I nor my husband want to control the mother, in fact we would just like her to show up and no drama. What i was trying to say is what do we do to resolve this, make it easier on child involved, our marriage and children. It is stressful with all this going on all the time. My husband has never missed a visitation or child support until mother decided not to show up.
