Children with drug addict mom

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

My response:

You see, Ldij. Stealth's silence is confirmation of the truth. But, she's stubborn and bullheaded.

I can be MORE stubborn and bullheaded.

IAAL

 

[stealth2]

Time will tell. I doubt it, but time will tell. Carry on if you like, but I'm finished with the discussion. Ciao.

 

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

Time will tell. I doubt it, but time will tell. Carry on if you like, but I'm finished with the discussion. Ciao.

My response:

Stealth - - In many of your responses, you have a bad habit of using the made-up word, "noone".

Your assignment?

I want you to write "no one" 100 times - - and I don't mean "copy and paste" either! You are to physically type those two words 100 times.

IAAL

 

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

Oh, I learn. I simply don't like being told what to do. Take it or leave it.

My response:

Have I not, in the past, "asked" you nicely? Have I not begged, pleaded and cajoled you to stop using "noone".

I believe I have always been cordial to you in my requests. But, as of late, I don't know what else to do to get you to break that bad habit - - other than what I'm doing. I'm at a complete loss.

Don't you see that I'm caring enough to help you? Stop being so bullheaded!

IAAL

 

[amacoycurry]

We have had the boys in the past, so as far as that goes we would be the first people to get them. The other grandmother is also a drug addict so we would be the "Grandparents". My son has had some problems in the past but is doing well, working, paying child support and is with a great woman who is wonderful with the boys. He has a lot of support from us and the community he is in, so I would wonder why he would not get the boys. Her probation officer had him come and get them the first time she tested positive.
Thanks to most for all of your great advice.

 

[pammness]

If it were me...

We have had the boys in the past, so as far as that goes we would be the first people to get them. The other grandmother is also a drug addict so we would be the "Grandparents". My son has had some problems in the past but is doing well, working, paying child support and is with a great woman who is wonderful with the boys. He has a lot of support from us and the community he is in, so I would wonder why he would not get the boys. Her probation officer had him come and get them the first time she tested positive.
Thanks to most for all of your great advice.

If it were me, I would be the one to contact CPS. I would stress that I wanted them back if they remove them from her. If they do determine that the children in fact need to be removed. After you have the boys with you, your son and you all can speak to your worker/workers and see if your son could then get custody. The children would be safe with you and not in some fosterhome (not that fosterhomes are bad, it just takes longer to get them back is all). While he does what he needs to for CPS and the courts say, he could possibly be granted custody. The more you are willing to do, the better CPS is with working with you. And in the meantime, unless CPS says otherwise your son and his new lady can see the boys whenever they wish.
CPS knows that people are not perfect, they know we make mistakes and also that we can change. CPS will do whatever they can to keep the children with relatives, as long as the relatives are willing to do what is required of them.
Let me know how it goes. Good Luck and God Speed.