stealth2
Under the Radar Member
BelizeBreeze said:The only problem with that assessment LDIJ is that MOM has known or should have known about this testing (if acutually existing) since the beginning of the 8th grade) That is 9 months from the time of the test. If the concern were so prevelant that she had concerns about the child not being returned, or she had paid attention to the order, she would have had ample time to addess her concerns through the proper channels.
As I said earlier, this 11th hour 'concern' is not sufficient grounds to bring a modification petition before the court before the date of the testing.
Mom had the responsibility in this matter and she didn't care enough to do anything about it until now.
Yep. My son also had 8th grade testing this spring. State testing hasn't been a huge issue in the past as it never really meant anything. However, our district uses the results of this testing for placement in HS - so doing well is the difference between the Honors track and regular track. I knew the dates of testing at the start of the school year and addressed the w/e visitation early on with Dad to ensure that he'd be home early enough to get a good night's sleep. (LOL Those of you familiar with my ex know what fun that was!) He did make it into how he was doing me a huge favor, blah blah blah.
But the upshot is - these dates aren't set at the last minute. Nor are the apparent problems with Dad new. The key at this point is to try and get Dad to be reasonable about it, but to also develop a back-up plan by talking to the kid's guidance counselor. They can sort out make-up testing, and are generally very understanding about visitation issues.