FLA I need legal advice but I need support from other fathers also.

[djmastr111]

Ok you have been listening. Yes well the attorney I spoke to says it can be used as evidence and is somewhat relevant if it is not something that has already been addressed to the courts which it hasn't. That I need to show the court that this has been a habitual....(cant think of the word) and that parental alienation is very serious. This will be confusing but the court order is the same one for the last two years there hasn't been an actual modification since. Since that court order was entered there has been many contempts for refusing my weekends, refusing information regarding health, demanding that I allow her to pick him up early every week for school. She was held in contempt for these things and a contempt hearing is not a modification the judge will not hear anything except what she did wrong and a punishment. So after 3 contempts it is habitual and I'm sure that qualifies for a change in circumstances along with the newer stuff.

 

[djmastr111]

Also him having any mental or medical problems has never been addressed in court that is a change in circumstances.
Me being off of probation for the last 2 years is a change in circumstances allowing for us all to safely know that I will be able to stay involved in my childs life. That is a change in circumstances
Everything I have wrote about is stuff that has happened since the current court order. Anything ordered in a contempt order will not qualify as a modification. I need the modification also so that I can get all of these things put into one court order and make them permanent since mostly everything we go off of is stuff ordered in contempt hearings.

So what are you saying?

 

[djmastr111]

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I get it now. I am sorry. I've already filed the modification though. If I calm down and just wait for the response and read through these forums to learn from others mistakes and calm down because there is nothing I can do right now anyways.
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Pro Se Vs. Pro Se = Judge mostly makes decision depending on who he feels will be the most beneficial parent to the child. The calm parent who he feels is financially and mentally better capable of caring for the child.

Pro Se Vs. Party with attorney = Pro Se party is screwed

Attorney Vs. Attorney = custody awarded to the party with the smartest attorney forget the better parent.

 

[CJane]

Also him having any mental or medical problems has never been addressed in court that is a change in circumstances.
Me being off of probation for the last 2 years is a change in circumstances allowing for us all to safely know that I will be able to stay involved in my childs life. That is a change in circumstances
Everything I have wrote about is stuff that has happened since the current court order. Anything ordered in a contempt order will not qualify as a modification. I need the modification also so that I can get all of these things put into one court order and make them permanent since mostly everything we go off of is stuff ordered in contempt hearings.

So what are you saying?

None of that is a change in circumstances. None.

You have articulated a whole lot of what YOU want, and a whole lot of what 'everyone' thinks, and nothing that goes to a legally subatantiated change of circumstances or best interests.

 

[djmastr111]

What do you guys think about that George Zimmerman who shot that innocent boy and was never arrested? That is terrible and it is right near me.

 

[djmastr111]

I will bet you anything it is and will be heard by this judge and the judge will modify in my favor. I will post proof and show everyone that you don't know what your talking about. Yes the contempts are a change in circumstances her intentionally refusing to honor the court order and deny me of my parenting time. What are you talking about? The court order is expected to be followed it was not that can be used as a change in circumstances alone. I'm guessing you don't live in Florida and your laws are different because I have gotten 4 consultations and these are the main things the attorneys said they would use and for the most part did not guarantee but said it would be hard for the judge to not modify to give me more days permanently. OhioGal is an attorney ask her.

 

[djmastr111]

Why would you close my thread?

 

[I'mTheFather]

I will bet you anything it is and will be heard by this judge and the judge will modify in my favor. I will post proof and show everyone that you don't know what your talking about. Yes the contempts are a change in circumstances her intentionally refusing to honor the court order and deny me of my parenting time. What are you talking about? The court order is expected to be followed it was not that can be used as a change in circumstances alone. I'm guessing you don't live in Florida and your laws are different because I have gotten 4 consultations and these are the main things the attorneys said they would use and for the most part did not guarantee but said it would be hard for the judge to not modify to give me more days permanently. OhioGal is an attorney ask her.

Congratulations! I'm so glad to hear that! Now, if I may, I suggest that you not waste any more time on this forum and start researching the legal strategies you intend to use in court. Read up on the court rules too.

Good Luck, John!

 

[djmastr111]

John? What does that mean? I could use help with planning my strategy. I know what it looks like I understand it appears that I hate her and I do but not because of what shes done to me. It is what she allows others to do to our child.

 

[I'mTheFather]

John? What does that mean? I could use help with planning my strategy. I know what it looks like I understand it appears that I hate her and I do but not because of what shes done to me. It is what she allows others to do to our child.

Sorry, you remind me an awful lot of someone else. I got confused.

Your thread will be locked again when Peter Pan comes back. Quick now! Sign off and start researching!

 

[djmastr111]

I will just unlock it. Why would somebody who has nothing to do with my thread lock it?

 

[Proserpina]

I will just unlock it. Why would somebody who has nothing to do with my thread lock it?

Because the only people who can lock a thread are you - the OP - and admin.

If admin thinks the thread has gone as far as it's going to go, they'll lock it.

That's what happened with most of spinny's threads.

 

[djmastr111]

I feel bad for spinny you guys were pretty mean to him. Is there any way to contact him. I didn't read the whole post but I saw a lot of Your an idiot, stupid, dummy and such. Have you ever had a child taken from you? It's tough. Imagine your child taken and legally and financially not having a leg to stand on. Yeah I can relate to spinny and right now I think I feel the same way. I see that I need to change my attitude I can't I do have a doctors appt Friday and am unsure what to ask him for I don't know I feel tense at all times tight stomach, emotionless when my son is not with me, quick to get pissed off, Never want to sleep because everything is so intersting.

 

[I'mTheFather]

I feel bad for spinny you guys were pretty mean to him. Is there any way to contact him. I didn't read the whole post but I saw a lot of Your an idiot, stupid, dummy and such. Have you ever had a child taken from you? It's tough. Imagine your child taken and legally and financially not having a leg to stand on. Yeah I can relate to spinny and right now I think I feel the same way. I see that I need to change my attitude I can't I do have a doctors appt Friday and am unsure what to ask him for I don't know I feel tense at all times tight stomach, emotionless when my son is not with me, quick to get pissed off, Never want to sleep because everything is so intersting.

Just curious, here. You're a DJ? Spin records?

 

[Proserpina]

I feel bad for spinny you guys were pretty mean to him. Is there any way to contact him. I didn't read the whole post but I saw a lot of Your an idiot, stupid, dummy and such. Have you ever had a child taken from you? It's tough. Imagine your child taken and legally and financially not having a leg to stand on. Yeah I can relate to spinny and right now I think I feel the same way. I see that I need to change my attitude I can't I do have a doctors appt Friday and am unsure what to ask him for I don't know I feel tense at all times tight stomach, emotionless when my son is not with me, quick to get pissed off, Never want to sleep because everything is so intersting.

If you had, you would have seen a whole truckload of threads from him all about the exact same thing, him being given the exact same advice - and for awhile there, misto and I were the only ones bothering to respond to him since it was obvious he wasn't listening - over, and over, and over, and over, again.

You might want to try deltabravo.net if you want a support group, btw.