FLA I need legal advice but I need support from other fathers also.

[djmastr111]

I am so sorry. I shouldn't act the way that I do towards yall for listening or your input no matter if I like what is said or not.

What about interference with parental relationship between child and parent by other parent and her boyfriend. Telling our child I'm not daddy and and telling our child to call boyfriend daddy when I am completely involved in his life more than anyone else. I was reading a book and that section was under the abuse, neglect, kidnapping section and there have been decisions on sole parenting modifications on just that alone says this book. I've asked her to stop I've brought it up in court. After I petition can I withdrawl that petition and refile because the current one was incomplete or anything?

 

[Isis1]

god help me for doing this.


you can amend your petition.

all you ask for is a no third party interference clause. no descriptions, not manure throwing. just a simple request.

 

[djmastr111]

Thank you Isis1. Thats what I'm working on. So then I ask for the clause no 3rd party interference. Since neither of us have done anything serious or harmful then even if she gets mad and starts attacking me I just keep quiet and let her go on and I don't have anything to worry about unless I were to fight back. I am asking for the modification to add the clause and that is it nothing more nothing less right? Should I need to prepare to defend myself if I know I haven't done anything? Is it necessary for me to bring my documentation other than what supports my request to add the clause? I know she will go in and say I did this and that.
She wont be filing a counter-petition but I don't want to fall into some kind of trap. I don't think I need to worry about anything but this is my sons life were talking about and I don't want to run into something unexpected.

 

[signspinner]

Sup brother

Found your thread. just be weary they will send everything you post on here to court officials if its negative

 

[ecmst12]

Oh dear lord. Whatever you do, don't listen to a single thing the previous poster tells you. Unless of course you WANT to screw up your case beyond repair.

 

[Ohiogal]

Oh dear lord. Whatever you do, don't listen to a single thing the previous poster tells you. Unless of course you WANT to screw up your case beyond repair.

Well I will admit to contacting prosecutors and attorneys if someone is totally whacked and is posting things I believe can help the opposition. Like salad spinner. And the kidnapper in HI who helped hide her hubby's children in FL from the mom in MT. Or like the idiots that post about child porn and what not.

 

[signspinner]

even the DR said this site does nothing

Well I will admit to contacting prosecutors and attorneys if someone is totally whacked and is posting things I believe can help the opposition. Like salad spinner. And the kidnapper in HI who helped hide her hubby's children in FL from the mom in MT. Or like the idiots that post about child porn and what not.

yeah they contacted the GAL on here and he in turn sent my post to the DR custody evaluator. said something like "i will never pay support" or something like "im only fighting custody to get back at ex"
nothing really related to the 2 1/2 years plus raising my daughter, or how I parent. just a few momentarily frustrated statements after i havent seen kiddo in over a year.

Im not gonna give any advice. I am here to support OP, dont post nothin online because lawyers will twist that stuff then you will have to go to final trial and rebutt it all with a fair understanding judge who has seen it all before.

And just to be clear I have not seen the post they sent, so as far as im concerned the post are illigitimate and made up

 

[Proserpina]

(I'm sorry lol - part of me has to laugh. I was hospitalized for several days, and I wonder if spinny missed me from the other forum so much he came hunting for me here again!)

(Yeah, it's all about me )

 

[Isis1]

Found your thread. just be weary they will send everything you post on here to court officials if its negative

wary = On guard; watchful: taught to be wary of strangers.
Characterized by caution: a wary glance at the black clouds.

weary = 1: exhausted in strength, endurance, vigor, or freshness
2: expressing or characteristic of weariness <a weary sign>
3: having one's patience, tolerance, or pleasure exhausted —used with of <soon grew weary of waiting>

 

[stealth2]

yeah they contacted the GAL on here and he in turn sent my post to the DR custody evaluator. said something like "i will never pay support" or something like "im only fighting custody to get back at ex"
nothing really related to the 2 1/2 years plus raising my daughter, or how I parent. just a few momentarily frustrated statements after i havent seen kiddo in over a year.

Im not gonna give any advice. I am here to support OP, dont post nothin online because lawyers will twist that stuff then you will have to go to final trial and rebutt it all with a fair understanding judge who has seen it all before.

And just to be clear I have not seen the post they sent, so as far as im concerned the post are illigitimate and made up

Stop hijacking, spinny.

OP - read Spinny's history. You do NOT want to follow any input he provides. Really.

 

[djmastr111]

Wow you guys must not like spinner if you would get involved in his case like that. Either way I don't know whats going on there but yeah for me things seem to be going alright. I have the support of my sons new school since my son is now telling them that her boyfriend is the one teaching him all the bad words and I'm not the only one hearing about this. My son came to my house this weekend and said "your a ******" then said "artie told me to tell you that your a fool" I'm going to let these things go for now because he is hurting his girlfriend and our son more than hes hurting me and it seems that the courts wont hear this on an emergency hearing so I can't do anything about this until I file the default on monday because she never responded to my petition. If she defaults I win from what I hear right?

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

I strongly suggest a GAL in your case. If not that, ask for the courts to appoint a counselor for your child to see.

In addition, you can ask for verbiage in your court order that the only two people allowed to be called Mom and Dad is Mom and Dad.

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

and if your X has an attorney, I highly suggest you have one unless you are well versed in court proceedings. My X ranks right there with Spinny in not taking the advice of more knowledgeable folks.

 

[Isis1]

Wow you guys must not like spinner if you would get involved in his case like that. Either way I don't know whats going on there but yeah for me things seem to be going alright. I have the support of my sons new school since my son is now telling them that her boyfriend is the one teaching him all the bad words and I'm not the only one hearing about this. My son came to my house this weekend and said "your a ******" then said "artie told me to tell you that your a fool" I'm going to let these things go for now because he is hurting his girlfriend and our son more than hes hurting me and it seems that the courts wont hear this on an emergency hearing so I can't do anything about this until I file the default on monday because she never responded to my petition. If she defaults I win from what I hear right?

depends...

look, it's not that we don't like spinny, it's the whole thing of he doesn't listen. he's messed up his case so bad in the last year. because he is refusing to listen. he's in way over his head. drowning. and there's not a darn thing any of us can do about it. and that is really frustrating for us. we want to help. we WANT him to see his child. but he doesn't want it as bad as we do. which is sad.

 

[st-kitts]

depends...

look, it's not that we don't like spinny, it's the whole thing of he doesn't listen.

So true...

depends...

he's messed up his case so bad in the last year. because he is refusing to listen. he's in way over his head. drowning. and there's not a darn thing any of us can do about it.

Yes, he has... Yes, he is... No we can't..

depends...

we want to help.

We do. I would love to see Spinny get help and be a good dad.

we WANT him to see his child.

This is the only point where I differ from you. I don't want that. Not now. Not in his current state and mindset.

I have major safety concerns about Spinny and this child together and what the end game here for Spinny is. And this is a game to him.

he doesn't want it as bad as we do. which is sad.

This is so sad. If Spinny wanted to see his child, he would have done so years ago. The statements about drawing this out to get revenge and victory seem much more the objective than anything to do with the child.