Ga Cse

[WHWT]

child support questions

X and newbie are mad because the kids don't want any thing to do with them. Everytime they call here it is a fight and we are all sick of it. I can not force these kids to go somewhere they do not want to go.

 

[mrsbrown]

X and newbie are mad because the kids don't want any thing to do with them. Everytime they call here it is a fight and we are all sick of it. I can not force these kids to go somewhere they do not want to go.

Yes, you can. You are the mother and legally responsible for upholding your part of fulfilling their visitation. You don't take any ownership for warping the kids views on their father and stepmother. I notice you don't like to call her that. You prefer nice little cheap shot nicknames. But she is infact their stepmother. Later in life your kids are going to resent the hostility you have created. That is a guaruntee.

If you are truly sick of it then LET IT GO! Take the court ordered payments and let that be the end of it. But you know you won't because you like the drama. Whether you want to admit it or not it is crystal clear.

 

[WHWT]

child support questions

Yes, you can. You are the mother and legally responsible for upholding your part of fulfilling their visitation. You don't take any ownership for warping the kids views on their father and stepmother. I notice you don't like to call her that. You prefer nice little cheap shot nicknames. But she is infact their stepmother. Later in life your kids are going to resent the hostility you have created. That is a guaruntee.

If you are truly sick of it then LET IT GO! Take the court ordered payments and let that be the end of it. But you know you won't because you like the drama. Whether you want to admit it or not it is crystal clear.

I came here to this site for help in getting child support that is due. I don't need your help telling me how to raise my children.

 

[WHWT]

child support questions

If CSE services only expect the NCP to pay monthly CS than is it my place to hire an attorney to get the arrears or is this CSE's job getting the arrears paid?

 

[genivieve]

X and newbie are mad because the kids don't want any thing to do with them. Everytime they call here it is a fight and we are all sick of it. I can not force these kids to go somewhere they do not want to go.

Ahh shut up. If your ex was smart he would take your a*s to court for violation on visition and then ask the judge to cease support until you conform to it. In NY a law states that if the mother should prevent or interfer with visitation all support and arrears can be extinguished forever. That would be our little "signing off law".

 

[gamom34t]

If you want anything done quickly, go ahead and get an attorney.

 

[MandyD]

Ahh shut up. If your ex was smart he would take your a*s to court for violation on visition and then ask the judge to cease support until you conform to it. In NY a law states that if the mother should prevent or interfer with visitation all support and arrears can be extinguished forever. That would be our little "signing off law".

Are you so sure about that NY law genivieve? That's funny 'cause I've lived here all my life and never knew of any law that would allow a child to go hungry because the CP didn't follow the visitation guidelines.

 

[WHWT]

child support questions

the ex tried getting modification and they are keeping everything the same. He has to continue paying cs until youngest turns 18 in July. He supposedly talked to cs about the children not being made to come and see him and they did not do anything to help him. Ha So there you are to grippers. Seems the system is working for me.

 

[J&A]

the ex tried getting modification and they are keeping everything the same. He has to continue paying cs until youngest turns 18 in July. He supposedly talked to cs about the children not being made to come and see him and they did not do anything to help him. Ha So there you are to grippers. Seems the system is working for me.

Lets all pray and hope he gets smart and files contempt through the courts. Then you'll be screwed. Child support can't do/say anything about visitation anyway..... duh.

You are a really sad person. I feel sorry for your children. It is pretty obvious you have alienated them from their father just because he got "a new bride." Who cares??? YOU got a new groom, so unless you are still madly in love with your ex, why don't you just move on with your life instead of obsessing about your money? After all, he'll continue to pay $50 a month until it is paid off ... lol!!! $50 a month goes far I am sure!! Don't spend it all in one place now. ha ha ha.

 

[brisgirl825]

Your kids are old enough that court probably won't make them go. I mean most states will listen to a 13 yr old's wishes about which parent they'd like to live with so why not visitation from an 17 yr old?
I am a child of divorce and I stopped seeing my dad at 14. I certainly never hated my mom for not making me either.

Sarah

 

[J&A]

brisgirl825 - Your kids are old enough that court probably won't make them go. I mean most states will listen to a 13 yr old's wishes about which parent they'd like to live with so why not visitation from an 17 yr old?
I am a child of divorce and I stopped seeing my dad at 14. I certainly never hated my mom for not making me either.

Sarah

That's not really the point. There should be punishment for a mother poisoning her kids against their father. In this particular case through the OP's own admission, she has encouraged her children's dislike of their father. It is sad to say the least. Maybe your mother had a little more couth and class than OP.

Legally, when there is a court order stating that he has visitation, by law, the CP has to follow it. Otherwise she is in contempt of court. This woman is in contempt of court and it would seem that the father, like most fathers, gave up instead of fighting it through the courts. If he wanted to press the issue, she would be charged with contempt.

 

[WHWT]

child support questions

I heard through the grape vine that my ex did not pursue visitation because he was not going to fight me and the kids. I can not help it the kids do not want to see him. I want my money and the kids are at an age where they are on their own and they could use the money. I can not help it he moved to AR what a lame state.

 

[Gracie3787]

the ex tried getting modification and they are keeping everything the same. He has to continue paying cs until youngest turns 18 in July. He supposedly talked to cs about the children not being made to come and see him and they did not do anything to help him. Ha So there you are to grippers. Seems the system is working for me.

Why are you so happy? Everything worked exactly the way that everyone here said that it would.

You say EVERYTHING was kept THE SAME AS BEFORE? And you are happy about that? Think about it:

1. ON-GOING SUPPORT stays the same until July- nothing was changed, what you don't realize is that means that that portion of his payments WILL LEGALLY STOP. If a change had been made, it would specify that that amount would still be paid, but would become arrears payments. So I guess HE got what he wanted- not you. HaHaHa.

2. As you said NOTHING CHANGED- not even the $50 arrears payments. In July that is ALL HE WILL LEGALLY HAVE TO PAY every month. Again, he got what he wanted-HaHaHa.

You are right, the "system" is working exactly like it is supposed to. And guess what- you STILL have to wait to get your money in SMALL amounts- just like everyone else.
ByeBye
Gracie

 

[joan marie]

This has nothing to do with love. For if love was involved, kindness and humility would be as well. this is about a control freak. Some one that has no control of thier own life that they intrude on others. Pathetic actually and quite telling.

joan marie *

 

[WHWT]

child support questions

Thanks for the info. I will keep a watch on this so my ex does not try to pull this on me. I don't think I have to worry because I don't think GA or AR have this law like NY.