Husbands Rights or Lack There of!

[VeronicaLodge]

She should have taken her case to a real judge in NJ and not a panel of idiot volunteer lawyers. I think she would have done much better. Judges are elected, lawyers are not.

good point and I'm glad you are hanging out with better people now. I really want you to write a book on your life/marriage/divorce, I would be totally interested in reading it!!!

 

[Bali Hai]

of course it is the exception.

Now would you say that a loving nurturing NCP,who is always current on his/her child support, exercises his/her visitation, attends his/her children's events. blah blah blah and has something like this happen to him/her would be the exception or the rule???

Again, of course the exception.

That is the problem with family court. there really is no "rule".

You are my hero fair!! muahhh!!!

 

[Bali Hai]

Really? Hmmm...


Bali, some light reading for you.

http://www.ajs.org/js/MA_methods.htm

Oh, and since tuffbrk is NJ, I thought I would just post that relevant info (even though it has nothing to do with this thread, but please note that I did post the link for MA, too) for you to read, as well.

http://www.ajs.org/js/NJ_methods.htm

Judges are NOT elected in either MA or NJ.

That has to mean that they are appointed. WORSE than an elected judge!!!

 

[majomom1]

Would you say this is the exception, or the rule??

I think it is quickly becoming the rule... or at least I hope. Especially where custody is concerned. Both parents deserve to see their kids.

I quite frankly am tired of women being bashed, based on the ones that do stoop to these methods. That is not how all women are.

In my world... the male species seems to be the "dishonest" ones and will say, or do anything to get their way.

Much as I dislike my ex, our kids love him and I would never do anything to keep him away from them.

 

[yerbudi]

Again, thank you for all of the information and advice. I have pretty much been a prisoner in my own apt, since we live 1 1/2 miles apart.

I did run into my father-in-law at the PO on Monday. The RO is only for her and my children. He just put his head down and walked by, and I stepped aside kept my head down and went to get my mail.

I was half surprised I didn't get a call from the local PD on that one.