hopelessinil
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Illinios
I am NCP of 2 children, one 8 one 6. The CP refuses to meet half way, because she claimes her bi-polar disorder will not allow her to drive to meet half-way, so I have to drive both ways. And yes she is court ordered to meet halfway for visitation purposes.
Ok second issue is about our 8 year old which will soon be nine. During our weekends or our summer vacation for quite some time now has consistantly soiled himself. I would inquire with my ex of the situation and she would shrug it off and say " oh the doctor says he is constipated " This issue that has been consistant over the last couple of years. The problem I have is that our 8 year old makes no attempt to even try to make it to the bathfoom, and gets upset with me when I ask what the problem is. She has said on a number of occations that it happens all the time and she just makes our child strip in the shower rinse the underwear in the tub and poke the "clumps" , with his fingers down the drain. Is this a healthy thing to teach him? What I want to know is what rights do I have or do I have any !!!
My last issue is the bi-polar problems she has. She at minimum goes in the psych ward 2-3 times a year, do to the fact she will not stay on her medications. Also when she goes off of her medications she usually ends up, one way or another, having to relocate herself and our children. So they move a couple times a year is that good on our kids?
I am NCP of 2 children, one 8 one 6. The CP refuses to meet half way, because she claimes her bi-polar disorder will not allow her to drive to meet half-way, so I have to drive both ways. And yes she is court ordered to meet halfway for visitation purposes.
Ok second issue is about our 8 year old which will soon be nine. During our weekends or our summer vacation for quite some time now has consistantly soiled himself. I would inquire with my ex of the situation and she would shrug it off and say " oh the doctor says he is constipated " This issue that has been consistant over the last couple of years. The problem I have is that our 8 year old makes no attempt to even try to make it to the bathfoom, and gets upset with me when I ask what the problem is. She has said on a number of occations that it happens all the time and she just makes our child strip in the shower rinse the underwear in the tub and poke the "clumps" , with his fingers down the drain. Is this a healthy thing to teach him? What I want to know is what rights do I have or do I have any !!!
My last issue is the bi-polar problems she has. She at minimum goes in the psych ward 2-3 times a year, do to the fact she will not stay on her medications. Also when she goes off of her medications she usually ends up, one way or another, having to relocate herself and our children. So they move a couple times a year is that good on our kids?

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