I won!

[xKellyx]

Alabama


I won my hearing today. The Judge told my ex that his Motion for Contempt is DENIED, and that the court will no longer waste their time with his false accusations. He also got reprimanded for lying directly to the judge.

She also ordered that I NEVER EVER have to contact my ex again, that if I feel there is something that he needs to know than I just have to send it to my daughter's attorney who will in turn send it to my ex's attorney.

We will now do all visitations through the Family Services Center, so I never ever will have to see my ex again.

The judge was PISSED at him. I had a lot of fun getting to ask him questions and making him stumble and look like a complete fool.

So, in turn I probably won't be needing this site anymore, but I want to thank everyone for all the help they have given me.


oh, and going pro se is not as hard as lawyers would have you believe. =p

 

[Mbarr77]

Alabama


I won my hearing today. The Judge told my ex that his Motion for Contempt is DENIED, and that the court will no longer waste their time with his false accusations. He also got reprimanded for lying directly to the judge.

She also ordered that I NEVER EVER have to contact my ex again, that if I feel there is something that he needs to know than I just have to send it to my daughter's attorney who will in turn send it to my ex's attorney.

We will now do all visitations through the Family Services Center, so I never ever will have to see my ex again.

The judge was PISSED at him. I had a lot of fun getting to ask him questions and making him stumble and look like a complete fool.

So, in turn I probably won't be needing this site anymore, but I want to thank everyone for all the help they have given me.


oh, and going pro se is not as hard as lawyers would have you believe. =p

Congratulations!!! It is always so encouraging to hear stories like this, where it works out for the best!!

 

[xKellyx]

Congratulations!!! It is always so encouraging to hear stories like this, where it works out for the best!!

Isn't it though. Everyone is good for all the parties in my situation now. He can no longer legally harrass me.

I think Everyone including him is happy with this order, even though his contempt was denied.

and thank you!

 

[CandiceH]

Congrats! Some good news today!

 

[rmet4nzkx]

His petition for contempt got you into court and now you are ordered to only contact him through attorney's so you can no longer harass him and his wife. Now you are ordered to present the child for visitation at an agency, so you can no longer withhold visitation as you have been doing. Just because his petition for contempt was denied doesn't mean that you won. The fact that you are ordered to communicate through attorney's means the judge is upset with YOU because you are too immature to act like an adult and coparent the child. At least now the child can visit with her father again withut your harassing dad.

 

[xKellyx]

I'll admit that even though I've had you on ignore, and I've ignored you last several posts, I read this one to see what you could possibly say.


so the judge is pissed at me because my ex couldn't interpret his order correctly? and she yelled at him because she is mad at me? she denied his contempt because she is pissed at me? is anyone else getting this, I really truly believe you are just prejudiced. You are angry that you were wrong about me and I'm sorry but I won't let you ruin my happy day.

I won and thats all there is to it.

 

[xKellyx]

Congrats! Some good news today!

Thank you!

 

[casa]

Alabama


I won my hearing today. The Judge told my ex that his Motion for Contempt is DENIED, and that the court will no longer waste their time with his false accusations. He also got reprimanded for lying directly to the judge.

She also ordered that I NEVER EVER have to contact my ex again, that if I feel there is something that he needs to know than I just have to send it to my daughter's attorney who will in turn send it to my ex's attorney.

We will now do all visitations through the Family Services Center, so I never ever will have to see my ex again.

The judge was PISSED at him. I had a lot of fun getting to ask him questions and making him stumble and look like a complete fool.

So, in turn I probably won't be needing this site anymore, but I want to thank everyone for all the help they have given me.


oh, and going pro se is not as hard as lawyers would have you believe. =p

Congrats I too, went through harrassment via endless court filings from my nuttyX...and it was a pleasure to hear the judge sternly admonish him, compliment me- and set up visitation exchange at a public place permanently.

This can end up being very positive. Dad can focus on solely his relationship with daughter...and you two will have enough distance to get over all the issues involved.

Pro Se CAN be easier than it appears~ BUT that is only in clearer cut situations. Had it entailed other issues, it would be very difficult. At any rate, I'm glad you were able to do it without the outrageous legal fees.

 

[xKellyx]

Congrats I too, went through harrassment via endless court filings from my nuttyX...and it was a pleasure to hear the judge sternly admonish him, compliment me- and set up visitation exchange at a public place permanently.

This can end up being very positive. Dad can focus on solely his relationship with daughter...and you two will have enough distance to get over all the issues involved.

Pro Se CAN be easier than it appears~ BUT that is only in clearer cut situations. Had it entailed other issues, it would be very difficult. At any rate, I'm glad you were able to do it without the outrageous legal fees.

I am sure that everythingn will be fine now. It really does feel good that this is over for good.

You are right about going Pro Se, it wasn't necessary for me to have a lawyer since I had all the documentation needed to prove him a liar. I ended up not having to show a lot of my documentation though, because it was obvious he had misinterpated the court order, she told him that if he had problems interperting the court order he should of contacted his attorney.

But not everything is as clear as my case was.

Thank you!

Thank GOD for no outrageous attorney fees.

 

[betterthanher]

I'll admit that even though I've had you on ignore, and I've ignored you last several posts, I read this one to see what you could possibly say.


so the judge is pissed at me because my ex couldn't interpret his order correctly? and she yelled at him because she is mad at me? she denied his contempt because she is pissed at me? is anyone else getting this, I really truly believe you are just prejudiced. You are angry that you were wrong about me and I'm sorry but I won't let you ruin my happy day.

I won and thats all there is to it.

I just "love it" when I see people on here claiming "they won!" in cases like this (that was sarcasm by the way).

Both of you acted like you were 10.

No one has any legal right to harass anyone. Each state has statutes that addresses harassment.

So, "you won". To quote Adam Sandler: "whoop-dee-freaking-doo."

The thing is, it's not the parents who win or lose at these bullsh*t games, like yours.

Why?

Because it's not about YOU. It's not about him either.

It's about the g-ddamn kids.

While parents like you two keep acting like kids on an elementary school playground, it's the children that are ultimately affected.

Something BOTH of you seemed to forget about because you were too busy acting like immature jackasses.

And if you think for a minute they don't know what's going on, you're clueless.

Like I tell my ex: just because it's held in juvenile court doesn't mean that's how you're supposed to act.

So, neither of you "won." Hopefully both of you will grow the hell up.

Or maybe your kids will beat both of you to the punch on that one.

[rant mode off]

 

[rmet4nzkx]

I just "love it" when I see people on here claiming "they won!" in cases like this (that was sarcasm by the way).

Both of you acted like you were 10.

No one has any legal right to harass anyone. Each state has statutes that addresses harassment.

So, "you won". To quote Adam Sandler: "whoop-dee-freaking-doo."

The thing is, it's not the parents who win or lose at these bullsh*t games, like yours.

Why?

Because it's not about YOU. It's not about him either.

It's about the g-ddamn kids.

While parents like you two keep acting like kids on an elementary school playground, it's the children that are ultimately affected.

Something BOTH of you seemed to forget about because you were too busy acting like immature jackasses.

And if you think for a minute they don't know what's going on, you're clueless.

Like I tell my ex: just because it's held in juvenile court doesn't mean that's how you're supposed to act.

So, neither of you "won." Hopefully both of you will grow the hell up.

Or maybe your kids will beat both of you to the punch on that one.

[rant mode off]

Kelly is studying to be a school teacher.

 

[nextwife]

I never ever will have to see my ex again.

You and he have a CHILD together. Do you plan on pressuring your child to EXCLUDE their dad from all the important events of their life? Graduations, special birthdays, school plays or music programs? Sports events? Weddings, etc.? Piano recitals?

How naive are you that you think your child won't ever have occassions that require you BOTH to attend, and to not make YOUR issues with each other cloud your child's special day??

 

[wtk8j]

You won!!! Is that what you really think? The truth is yes you weren't cited with contemp,but th etruth is the judge ordered the supervised visits at a visitation center for a reason ,and my bet would be that it was not just for the purpose of monitoring dads behavior ,but monitoring your behavior as well. I t was probably more of a I can't tell who is telling the truth here so lets make a clear cut order that you both can comprehend and lets see who abides by it. It really isn't that hard to figure out the real reason for the ruling!!!! Atleast in my opinion....your welcome to your version ofcourse.

 

[xKellyx]

You and he have a CHILD together. Do you plan on pressuring your child to EXCLUDE their dad from all the important events of their life? Graduations, special birthdays, school plays or music programs? Sports events? Weddings, etc.? Piano recitals?

How naive are you that you think your child won't ever have occassions that require you BOTH to attend, and to not make YOUR issues with each other cloud your child's special day??

Hun, I've tried to get her father to attend these things, the judge said that since he refuses all communication from me that I no longer have to communicate with him and that if I feel he needs to know something I should go through my daughter's lawyer. She said that it is just a big waste of time to communicate when him when he doesn't even seem to want it. If my ex calls me up one day and says he wants to start being there for her at her functions, I will more than gladly oblige. I can't force him to be a father.

Oh, and her birthday just passed a few weeks ago, I invited his whole family to attend the party at a public place, but only his mother came. There isn't anything more I can do. I will continue to invite his other family members who do wish to be a great part of my daughters life.

 

[xKellyx]

You won!!! Is that what you really think? The truth is yes you weren't cited with contemp,but th etruth is the judge ordered the supervised visits at a visitation center for a reason ,and my bet would be that it was not just for the purpose of monitoring dads behavior ,but monitoring your behavior as well. I t was probably more of a I can't tell who is telling the truth here so lets make a clear cut order that you both can comprehend and lets see who abides by it. It really isn't that hard to figure out the real reason for the ruling!!!! Atleast in my opinion....your welcome to your version ofcourse.

IF that was the way of it, then why did she admonish him for continuously bringing false accusations to the attention of the court?

and, even if thats the way of it, I'm still happy. This is for the best interest of my daughter.