Re: Holy spirit
laywerless said:
Ahh, the riches you'll receive are of the heart.
Why so bitter IAAL?
Maybe we didn't have this all "planned" out perfectly. Obiously! Would I be in so deep that I would resort to BK if we had? So your "free advice" is screw the child/ punish the mom? Mistakes happen, the only way to proceed is to choose the best course from here. I can't go back and undo the birth of my son, nor would I for all the riches in the world, but I can make the best choices for my family. If you call that selfish than I will wear that badge with pride! (Along with any other names you can think of to call me)
Maybe it is you who doesn't "get it"
My response:
Bitter? No. Appalled? Yes.
"Having a child, and then filing Bankruptcy, is an abuse of the system; i.e., an "abuse" of all of us."
I guess you just don't get it. You're selfish. Your BK increases our costs of living, which in turn, translates into US financing your child due to your decision. Doesn't that make you feel like "Trailer Trash" - - especially since you have the ability to make an income? It should. But then, you don't sound like you have a conscience.
You get a job, either in house, or "outhouse". But, you don't file BJ when your husband makes a living. You do your utmost to stay away from BK. You just don't throw up your hands as your first, or second, response. You do everything you can to make money, legally.
Take in laundry. Start sewing. Stuff envelopes. Do SOMETHING.
IAAL